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All good points, but over the years, I have realized that people's essential goodness shines through in different ways. Being in the Bay Area, I find that I run into a lot of essentially phony people who use "spirituality" as a way to prove their righteousness. Ever heard of spiritual materialism? Well, it's alive and well where I live, and I feel that I tend to encounter it more than usual among the yoga buffs.
That said, I think that being around people who are conscious, kind, and open-minded is very important. I find that I'm very picky about the people I spend time with as well, but for me, genuinity and general kindness are much more important to me than having someone to do yoga or engage in spiritual activities with.
Good point, Nirmala. Don't get me wrong, Nirmala, there are plenty of "yoga snobs" out there. But I think more at my age (which is almost 40 now), the people I'm around are older and sometimes because of that a bit more sincere. I think when you are in your 20s and getting really excited about something like yoga there may be a tendency to get overly caught up in it to the point where it becomes your sole identity. It becomes a trendy thing to do instead of something you do because you know that it helps your mind and spirit.
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It is not easy to follow a spiritual path in an age of materialism. You may be trying to improve yourself with yoga and meditation, but your neighbors, friends and even family members may be moving in a different direction.
One of the ways you can gain the strength needed to stick to your path is by associating with like-minded people. When I first began yoga there were some days when I didn’t feel like doing it, but I was with some friends who were also into yoga and they said, “come on let’s do our yoga postures together.” So that really helped. Imagine if I had had friends who would have said,”yeah, yoga is for sissies, come on let’s go and drink some beer.” I wouldn’t be here now writing this yoga blog!
So, if you want to remain consistent and strong in your yoga practice hang out with like-minded people. Find some friends who also wish to move on the spiritual path. Good company in Sanskrit is called Satsaunga (sometimes written, satsanga). Sat signifies the unchangeable supreme truth and saunga means company.
Here is what my guru, Shrii Shrii Anandamurti has to say about satsaunga:
“Even a golden vessel needs polishing occasionally. Unmaintained it gathers dust and dirt and loses its lustre. Similarly, even a good person or a sádhaka needs proper maintenance, for in a world of constant change, care must be taken that the change be always towards the better or the higher. Keeping good company is essential for this positive development. While bad company strengthens the bondage of the soul, good company is conducive to liberation and salvation. The keeping of good company is conducive to liberation and is known as satsauṋga in Sanskrit. When satsauṋga is followed, either physically or mentally or both, the subconscious mind, and thus the conscious mind, are charged with better and higher influences. This change will move the follower forward towards higher and better goals.”
You can find out more about this approach to yoga at www.anandamarga.org