I'm a Capricorn, so by my very nature, I used to try and plan for everything. That of course led to feeling frustrated when it didn't quite come out like I pictured. I've since learned to just let go (well somewhat anyway), and accept things as they are, and not how I want them to be.
When I came in 1st runner-up at the International Belleza Latina pageant, I was shocked. I was disappointed. Not to say that the winner didn't deserve to win (she absolutely did), but it wasn't what I expected, and I panicked a bit a first when that door closed. Since then there have been a few bumps in the road (what else is new) but there have been even greater doors that have opened.