this similar thing just happened to our dog (lower lid, eye used to be very red). We have taken... on or around the eye? Was she outdoors when it happened? Is she squinting the eye?
The upper eyelid...
Are the "bumpy patches" a result of your anxiety and stress? Perhaps. But they may also be due to any number of things.
If you are concerned your doctor should be able to provide a diagnosis, or refer you to a specialist
Have you changed your soaps, lotions and/or detergents lately? Perhaps this is contact dermatitis? Have you stayed overnight in any hotels lately? There've been reports of bed bug infestations. Have you been outdoors? Pe
Sorry but I'm having a difficult picturing a red bump. It might be an ingrown hair or it might be a sexually transmitted infection, especially if you're itchy. Since you're worried, it's best to go see your family doctor.