Oral Surgery has the potential for experiencing more complications than other surgeries because there are two completely different tissues involved in the healing process: 1) Bone and 2)Soft Tissue.
The healing of the soft
seems to indicate that this is generalized throughout her mouth--a tooth abscess would be confined to the localized area around the affected tooth.
Sometimes a child's first outbreak of oral herpes, can be very severe...
When you have such sever pain, you cannot wait for the dental office to open. I would suggest you go to the hospital emergency room. They will have the medications you need to start feeling better--QUICK.
When you have a prolonged period of healing and residual bleeding swelling and inflammation as denoted by the redness, this should be the occasion of return visit with your surgeon to double-check the surgery site. You may