Undergoing IVF or other assisted conception procedures can be emotionally and physically draining. It is important that couples are offered counseling where appropriate, for example to understand the implications of treatment, or as a means of support at a critical time (e.g. if an IVF cycle has failed or if the decision has been taken to discontinue treatment).

Counseling should be offered before, during and after assisted conception treatment (regardless of the outcome of the procedures) by someone who is not directly involved in the management of the couples fertility problems.

It is not uncommon for couples who have been successful in their attempts to start a family to find it difficult to adjust to their new life. It is important to seek help from health professionals (for example, your fertility consultant or doctor). Contacting a fertility support group and talking with others who can empathise with your experiences can also be helpful.