Sometimes we hear a woman say that to keep rewarding herself as she loses weight seems selfish.
It' s a funny thing about selfishness. People are usually the most selfish when they don' t have what they need. To make up for what they lack, they tend to grab, to take, to keep for themselves, even at the expense of others, and that' s what makes them selfish.
Actually, the more you can give to yourself, the more you allow yourself courtesy and respect, generosity and consideration, the more you have to give to others. The more you have, the less greedy and needy you become. The more you have, the more easily you can give, and the less selfish you are.