I have noticed this in the past and now I am noticing it more and more, that my relationship is hurting my weightloss. If he is eating chocolate than I am eating chocolate and if he is sleeping in and skipping the gym than I follow like a fat little sheep. I have been with my boyfriend for five years and I know I have lost a large chunk of who I was and gained a huge chunk of who I wasn'n including my extra 150 pounds. I wish I would have realized sooner what was happening inside myself to see the changes in my body and personallity. I refuse to be a whiney weightloss blogger and I would like to make a point of saying that I am not whining about this- it is a cautionary tale to other people who are getting into long term relationships to not lose yourself and certainly not your figure. My wieght has not made him unattracted to me but it has made me unattracted to me. I happen to be one of those people that doesnt look 150 pounds over weight just like 80 pounds lol but I can't stand my body and that is why I am doing this. The time for change is whenever you realize just how fat or unhappy you have gotten!