In a previous posts I’ve talked about some excuses that I hear when people try to explain to me why they just can’t seem to diet and lose weight. There are a myriad of them, and I used them all at one time or another. Here’s one excuse that I hear very frequently – not only as a reason to not get started but as a reason peole quit before they reach their goals. And when I say “people” I’m including myself, because this is something I said over and over again!
I’m just not ready.
Like I said, I used this one myself for years, so I can come at this excuse from both sides. From the side of having lost 150 pounds and kept it off, and the side of weighing 300 pounds and telling friends, “I’m just not ready to commit to a weight loss program.” When people tell me this now, this is what I think: What are you not ready for:
High blood pressure?
Bigger sized clothes?
Difficulty with your joints?
When we use the excuse, “I’m not ready,” what are we really saving? We are saying “I’d rather deal with all the problems being overweight brings, than try one more time to get my weight under control.”
That’s what I said. I’d rather not fit into the seat belt or develop a potentially serious health issue than try to get healthy. This excuse really doesn’t make any sense does it? After all, who would willingly choose the unfortunate consequences of obesity over the benefits of healthy living? When you see it written like that, it may give you pause. Has your doctor ever cautioned you about what lies ahead if your weight doesn’t improve? Mine did, and I didn’t listen very well. He told me that I was heading down a slippery slope that was going to be harder and harder to climb up if I kept letting my weight creep up.
He was right. It was a lot harder to lose 150 pounds than to lose the 50 I needed to at that point in time. I didn’t listen to him then, but rather continued to gain and gain. If you are midway through your journey right now, don’t be tempted to give up and tell yourself “I’m not ready to finish,” and let it go at that. Tell yourself, “I’ll never be READY, so I may as well continue/start right now.” That’s what I finally did. I realized there was no perfect month to start. There was no perfect day to get started, and there was no magic to a certain program. I started, and I didn’t completely stop until I reached my goal weight. It’s not about how long it takes, but the fact that you continue to try that’s important.
Have you ever felt “not ready” to get started? Do you ever feel that way along your journey? How do you keep on track? Diane