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Happy Thanksgiving Everyone by Susan Patient Expert

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Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex Thanksgiving is a time for pausing and giving thanks but daily gratitude is an important part of a healthy life. Even when you’re hurting and things don’t seem s ... Read on »

Deciding Not To Decide by Susan Patient Expert

Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex I believe that we are solely responsible for our choices, and we have to accept the consequences of every deed, word, and thought throughout our lifetime. ~ Elisabeth Küb ... Read on »

On Getting Through The Holidays by Susan Patient Expert

Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex New readers may not realize that the blog and the book “came to life” shortly after I started the blog when I wrote about getting past the holidays when you have a ... Read on »

11/18 Check-in Thread by Susan Patient Expert

Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex New thread! As always, if you had posted in the last one and it wasn’t answered, feel free to post here. We don’t want anyone to feel ignored!! How is everyone do ... Read on »

Working Through Emotional Pain by Susan Patient Expert

Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex “One of the hallmarks of emotional maturity and realistic acceptance of the limitations and vicissitudes of life is the mastery, acceptance, and tolerance of sadness, he ... Read on »

Time Does Not Heal All Wounds by Susan Patient Expert

Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex I’ve heard people say, “Just give it time and it will heal.” or “Time heals all wounds.” or “The only cure for a broken heart is giving it ... Read on »

Forgiveness Redux by Susan Patient Expert

Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex Don’t forgive too soon. Forgiveness is never a quick fix. It is a process. ~ Rev. Susan Cartmell There is a saying that forgiveness is very freeing. And it is. But the c ... Read on »

Mail. We Get Mail When They Were or Are A Drug Addict by Susan Patient Expert

Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex I am 28 My Bf was 35. We had what I thought was a great relationship we were together for about a year and a half and prior to that we were good friends for about 2 years. At ... Read on »

Mail. We Get Mail on OCD and Long Distance and Choosing by Susan Patient Expert

Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex Hi Susan, You may answer this on the blog… I have just started getting to know someone new from a dating site, and we are thinking about making plans to meet if things ... Read on »

11/8 Check-in Thread by Susan Patient Expert

Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex New thread! (I know I’m late but I’ve been a bit busy) As always, if you had posted in the last one and it wasn’t answered, feel free to post here. We don&rs ... Read on »

Shoulda-Coulda-Woulda Redux by Susan Patient Expert

Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex In response to comments: “God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.& ... Read on »

The Person Who Left Me Doesn’t Miss Me by Susan Patient Expert

Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex I hear it all the time, “I want him or her to miss me.” or “I want to know I mattered.” or “How could he or she just go on like that as if I was ... Read on »

Predicting the Future by the Past by Susan Patient Expert

Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex We climb to heaven most often on the ruins of our cherished plans, finding our failures were successes. ~ Amos Bronson Alcott As the GPYP book is tag lined, the breakup of my ... Read on »

Breaking NC: Danger! by Susan Patient Expert

Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex Sometimes (okay a lot of times) when I read about an ex attempting to get one of the good readers of GPYP to break NC, this phrase comes to mind. Like every time. Posted in ... Read on »

The Horror That Can Be Reconcilliation by Susan Patient Expert

Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex On GPYP we don’t discuss reconcilliation attempts. We just don’t. Everything GPYP teaches comes from my personal and professional life and academic research. Ma ... Read on »

Grief and Depression Posts by Susan Patient Expert

Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex http://gettingpastyourpast.wordpress.com/2008/06/01/grief-self-pity-and-depressi http://gettingpastyourpast.wordpress.com/2009/08/05/are-you-depressed-2/ http://gettingpastyou ... Read on »

Transmogrification When They Break NC by Susan Patient Expert

Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex So many people struggle with the random, out of the blue contact from the ex and let their heads whirl around no matter how much or how little they’ve said. So many peo ... Read on »

10/24 Check-in Thread by Susan Patient Expert

Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex New thread! As always, if you had posted in the last one and it wasn’t answered, feel free to post here. We don’t want anyone to feel ignored!! How is everyone doi ... Read on »

Answering Mail by Susan Patient Expert

Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex I try to answer email but I receive about 50 emails a week with about 25 asking for an individual answer that the sender does not want posted on the blog. I can’t reall ... Read on »

Deciding to Move On by Susan Patient Expert

Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex I seem to run this every 3 months and it’s in response to an email I received today. You can sit on your hands all you want and move away from the computer etc etc but ... Read on »

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