I love to travel but I also get stressed out by the preparation and the actual traveling but I still go and I have fun the majority of the time. I am going on a cruise and so for the last week I have felt my anxiety levels rising. When I feel like this I know I have to start to bring that anxiety down.
I tell myself to relax as often as I remember to. This helps a lot over the day if I remember it enough. Relaxation music is also helpful and I listen to that before I go to sleep and I find it helps too at the airport to relax me and diffuse that travel anxiety I might be feeling.
Some of the ways I manage travel anxiety are:
I stop and think why I’m having a vacation. I had a dream and I put a plan into action so it would become reality. Now is the time to enjoy this time and look forward to it. This is the time to enjoy the experience.
Be organized when I am at the airport and/or the cruise terminal. I have all my documents handy and together. This helps me be more confident and relaxed.
I limit what I drink as far as alcohol is concerned as that makes me feel hot and confused which just makes my anxiety about traveling a lot worse. I usually settle with one drink at dinner if I feel like it.
I keep a travel diary so that I can go back and relive the memories and it reinforces how well I managed on that trip. Looking at all my diaries reminds me how many times I have traveled and it makes me feel good about myself.
I accept that not everything will go as planned and that sometimes you have to accept that change happens and planes get relayed or canceled or the hotel you picked online is really quite seedy or the excursion you booked is not really what you wanted but I have learnt to be open to that change and go with the flow. This has been the most challenging part of traveling for me.
Traveling also makes me trust my decisions and to make more choices. I wouldn’t have done that before. I found it hard to make any decisions in case I made the wrong ones. Now I can make the decisions I need to and if I made a mistake I have realized its not the end of the world.
I don’t worry about everything little thing but just enjoy and have a good time. I try not to over analyze everything that’s going on around me. Worry doesn’t achieve anything anyway.
Traveling has really empowered me and given me many great things including opening up my mind to new places, different people and being more tolerant, but the greatest thing I have achieved from traveling is confidence in myself.
I now manage my travel anxiety pretty well now and have all the tools to send it packing but in the other direction.
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