On many occasions my guy friends would come to me for advice and ask me how they could get a girlfriend. Perhaps it’s because I’ve been dating since 6th grade, or possibility because they’ve never seen me without a girlfriend.
When it comes to dating, the number one thing to do is organize our priorities. It follows that the number one question to ask ourselves is, “why do I want to be in a relationship.”
Why Do YOU Want to Be in a Relationship?
The answer to this question will be very unique and personal to you. It could be for fun, for sex, for security, for comfort or a large variety of other reasons. Whatever your reason is, it’s important for you to have a clear distinction of what you’re looking for.
My current style of dating is “dating for marriage.” This means that I’m looking for someone that I think will make an awesome wife, will fulfill my needs till death do us part, and someone that I’ll be able to give my love to fully and easily. I would define this as a passionate-friendship.
This hasn’t always been my style of dating though. My dating technique used to consist of dating anybody who was interested in me.
With that technique at the center of my game I made some very wrong choices. Choices that would ultimately leave me feeling frustration and a lack of control.
Through much trial and error, and over a decade of dating, I’ve put together the pieces of the dating puzzle.
Now it’s simple to see that being a confident dater, and getting the person that you want, is as simple as defining what it is that you are looking for.
“So You’ve Figured it Out. Good For You, But What About Me?”
I have no intention of leaving you hanging without the answer that you’re looking for. The way to figure out what you want is to sit down with yourself, and carefully do an extensive self-examination of all of your needs and wants.
The key to this is to ask yourself all the right questions in all the important categories.
These questions aren’t magic, nor are they secret, and I have full intention of freely divulging them to you, at no charge, and at your earliest convenience.
While I’m at it though, I’d like to tell you some of the other tips and tricks that I have deciphered over the years.
What Do You Really Want?
I’d like to help you understand exactly what it is that you want. Then, I will show you how to build up the confidence so that you realize you deserve to have what you want.
After that, we’ll work on approaching the person of your dreams. We’ll work on communicating powerfully, so that you can really get your point across. Then we’ll close the deal together, as you learn a couple of sure-fire tactics for closing the deal and asking them out.
The great part about what I’m going to show you is that it’s not just for getting into a relationship, or “ picking up girls (or guys).”
This technique works for people that are already in a relationship, and it also works for building successful business relationships.
This is where a lot of internet markets would say, come and get it for the low low price of something-something dollars.