Signs of Infidelity that Typically Appear AFTER Valentine’s Day
Posted Jul 28 2008 8:14pm
If you think your spouse or significant other is cheating, keep your eyes open for the following signs of infidelity which typically show up AFTER Valentine’s Day.
•A hidden giftdiscovered before Valentine’s Day that has disappeared but wasn’t given to you.
• Receipts for the purchase of2 identical gifts.
•Receipts or credit card statements for candy, flowers, jewelry, lingerieyou didn’t personally receive.
• Receipts orcharge slips for gifts that don’t correspondwith the gift he gave you.
•A thank you note or e-mailto or from your spouse for a Valentine’s Day gift you know nothing about.
•Gifts of a personal nature, like jewelry or lingerie, that suddenly appear after Valentine’s Day, which she attempts to pass off as items she purchased for herself. ( Ask to see the sales receipt.)
•Restaurant receipts or charge slipsdated February 13,14,15 for meals that didn’t include you.
•Credit card receipts for a hotel staydated the day before, the day after, or on Valentine’s Day.
•Telephone or cell phone billsshowing suspicious calls made early morning or late evening or at lunchtime on Valentine’s Day.
Gina’s Cheating Valentine Story
Sometimes incriminating receipts show up after Valentine’s Day. While emptying the bedroom wastepaper basket, Gina found an ATM slip from her husband Carlos’ bank account dated February 10, indicating a $450 cash withdrawal. She immediately became suspicious because the card, roses and box of chocolates Carlos gave her for Valentine’s Day couldn’t have cost anywhere near that amount. She was convinced Carlos spent the money on a Valentine’s Day gift for another woman, and began looking for other signs of infidelity to confirm that Carlos was having an affair.
Julie’s Cheating Valentine Story
Dave told Julie he had to go into work a couple of hours early on Valentine’s Day to finish up some important paperwork for a meeting with his boss later that day. Two weeks later, while out running errands, Julie opened the glove compartment to get some tissues and found a parking ticket dated February 14, which indicated that on Valentine’s morning Dave was illegally parked at a location that was nowhere near his job.
Rodney’s Cheating Valentine Story
Pay attention to any new jewelry that your wife or girlfriend starts wearing after Valentine’s Day – especially if it’s in the shape of a heart. Shortly after Valentine’s Day Rodney noticed that Pat was wearing a bracelet with several small gold heart-shaped charms hanging from it. He commented, “That’s a nice bracelet. Where’d you get it from?” Pat told Rodney she bought it for herself at a jewelry sale after Valentine’s Day. When he questioned her further she was vague about which jewelry store it came from and how much the bracelet cost, and told him she’d misplaced the receipt.
Rodney became suspicious because Pat was very organized person who always saved receipts long after they were needed, and always knew exactly how much everything cost. It was several days before Rodney was able to get a closer look at the bracelet, which Pat left in her jewelry box when she went to the gym. Upon closer examination Rodney saw that each of the first 7 hearts had a single letter engraved on the back, which together spelled “I love you.” The 8th heart, slightly larger, was engraved with Love,Ted 2008.
Knowing What to Look for Is the Key
As I’ve said in previous posts, signs of infidelity seldom appear in isolation. If your spouse or significant other is cheating, there will be scores of corroborating signs. Where there’s one sign, there are plenty of others just waiting to be found. Since many of the signs are subtle and easy to overlook, knowing what to look for is the key. If you haven’t already done so, make sure you request a free copy of the special report entitled21 Ways to Tell if You Have a Cheating Mate.E-mailInfidelityInfo@gmail.comwith “21 Ways - bv” in the subject line.
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