"A common obstruction to a vital intimate relationship is what I call the assumption of clairvoyance. You imagine, perhaps unconsciously, that your partner or friend is somehow magically psychic when it comes to you -- so much so that he or she should unfailingly intuit exactly what you need, even if you don't ask for i...t. This fantasy may seem romantic, but it can undermine even the most promising alliances."

True, that. Thanks, Rob. (via Facebook. Yup, you can friend him and get his gems every day.)