Is it normal to feel like you are really and truly hating your spouse one minute, and then, when they leave for the store, or you go to work, you think, "I can't wait to see them again."?
I always get really concerned when I feel this way, but the more I talk to other married people (or people in longterm committed relationships -- which for the purpose of this blog, I include in the "married" category) it's not only a normal occurrence, but a healthy one.
Nevertheless it's scary to feel like I'm hating my husband. I don't like feeling that way. But then again, we are two people living under the same roof trying to take care of two kids under the age of 5 and still have time for eachother/time to work on the house/time to do bills/time to take care of ourselves/etc.
All of you seasoned married/committed people out there - how do you do it? Does this feeling lessen over the years? Does it get less scary? Do the things that drive you crazy about your spouse start to become less annoying?