Like it or hate it, sex is the most discussed subject all over the world. Dull sex is a problem that faces many couples. This problem is neither discussed in public nor in private. The problem many a times starts with you hence you hold the answer to this problem. Avoid bringing work related problems and other issues to the bedroom. Stress kills sex. Work on your self esteem to boost your ego. Kill the monotony of what you have established in your bedroom as a ritual. You can start by practicing non penetrative sex with your partner as penetrative sex has become dull sex. This might take the form of oral sex and other forms of sexual arousal. Holding and cuddling all night long will leave you feeling good. Appreciate the beauty of your partner’s body. Caress and kiss it all over till your partner cannot hold breath anymore. Adopt sleeping positions that allow both of you to hold each other. Do not give your partner a cold back. Change the venue of your love making. You have become so accustomed to your bedroom there is nothing exiting about it anymore. You have had sex in your matrimonial bed countless times. Leave it sometimes and try a new venue for a change of environment. You can book yourself in a hotel or go on vacation. Do your thing under the gaze of moonshine and the stars. Does not it look romantic, or in the loans under the flower beds. It is so exiting it gets you back on a sex mode. It will never be dull sex under such extraordinary scenes. Do not feel embarrassed though it might sound naughty. Do it with relish.
Talk with your partner about this problem. Do not run away from it, instead confront it. Brainstorm through it together. Discuss the root causes and start from where the tide began. Look for ways and means of getting rid of dull sex. Let both of you air what you really feel about it. Discuss the way forward in such a way that the feelings of both parties are catered for and comprehensively addressed. Talk! Both of you might be having fetishes and fantasies about sex which you have never confessed to each other. What excites you sexually, talk about it be open and honest with your partner. Speak it out. No one wants to be afflicted by the idea of dull sex. Intimate talk brings a ray of hope. Both parties can table their sexual expectations and come to an amicable compromise.
Creativity in the bedroom is another area that can improve that nagging and dull sex. It pays to be adventurous while lovemaking. It is not inscribed anywhere that you should only have sex the missionary style. Be adventurous and try various positions while having sex. Conservativeness will only serve to kill your sex life. Try and experiment with your partner the varied and wide range of sex positions. You will be surprised at how exciack seat of a bus. The dress code especially in the bedroom should be able to speak volumes. Wear provocative and sexy lingerie, one that gives out bold statements. It gives out those non-verbal cues to spruce up your otherwise dull sex. ting it is. Try that heart stopping sex, i mean having that impromptu sex. Having a quickie in the car, or at the bus.
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