How Valentine’s Day Flowers Can Expose a Cheating Mate
Posted Feb 11 2009 2:56pm
Flowers are a traditional gift for Valentine’s Day.
But many of the flowers bought for Valentine’s Day will be sent or received by cheating Valentines, and will give those cheating spouses and lovers away.
The “cheating Valentine” stories below, show just how this can occur.
Cliff’s Cheating Valentine Story
Cliff stopped by his wife Kate’s job to take her out for a romantic Valentine’s Day dinner after work. While Cliff was waiting downstairs in the lobby for Kate to come down, two of Kate’s co-workers who knew him stopped to compliment him on the beautiful flowers he sent Kate for Valentine’s Day. One woman raved on and on about how she’d never seen such an unusual bouquet and asked Cliff which florist he used. When she saw the expression on Cliff’s face, she realized too late that she and her co-worker had made a terrible mistake. Cliff hadn’t sent Kate any flowers for Valentine’s Day. The flowers were from someone else.
For Men with a Cheating Girlfriend or Cheating Wife
Flowers Sent to Her Job
Men, if your wife or girlfriend receives Valentine’s Day flowers from someone other than you, it’s pretty much a foregone conclusion that you’re not her only Valentine -- especially if the flowers are sent to her workplace instead of her home. If they weren’t sent by a male family member like her father, her son or her favorite nephew, then she’s got some explaining to do.
So whether you suspect her of cheating or not, stop by her job this Friday, since it’s the day before Valentine’s Day. Check out her desk or work station, if you can. If she received flowers from a secret lover, they’ll be sitting there in all their glory, since she can’t very well bring them home.
Brianna’s Cheating Valentine Story
Brianna received a dozen long-stemmed roses from her boyfriend on Valentine’s Day. But the note with the flowers read:
“To my darling wife on Valentine’s Day You mean the world to me. Words could never express the depth of my love for you. Your loving and devoted husband, Charles
Although Brianna had been dating Charles for several months, she had no idea he was a married man.
For Women with a Cheating Husband or Cheating Boyfriend
Love Notes and Florist Receipts
Countless cheating husbands and cheating boyfriends have been exposed by mix-ups with the notes on the Valentine’s Day flowers they send.
If your name is Carla, and the note with your Valentine’s Day flowers says “ To Claire, with love,” – and he has no female relatives by that name, then he’s got some explaining to do.
Mix-ups with the love notes aren’t the only way cheating men get exposed. Check for florist receipts. The sometimes indicate that more than one bouquet of flowers were sent, and may even contain the name and address of the person to whom the other flowers were sent.
Never Confront the Cheater Without Additional Proof
Don’t confront your cheating spouse or lover solely on the basis of the telltale signs of infidelity you find on or around Valentine’s Day.
You need to build an airtight case against the cheater, which means getting additional proof. But knowing what to look for is the key. Where there’s one sign of infidelity, there are always dozens of other signs just waiting to be found, because cheaters ALWAYS display multiple telltale signs. Again, knowing what to look for is the key.
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