We forget that when we begin dating someone, we are meeting
total strangers.These are merely
opportunities to explore if we want to spend more time with this person.We can either decide we do want to see more
of the person or we may decide that we do not want to see this person again or
vice versa.This is not rejection
because you can’t be rejected by a stranger.If a person tells you they don’t want to date you anymore, it’s because
you are not a fit for them.It’s not
that there is anything is wrong with you.It’s just not a good fit for the other person.We must stop getting attached to people that we don’t know,
people that we are not matched to in value and temperament.We must stop creating fantasy relationships
in our minds with people that we don’t even know.They are strangers.Here is one way to
stop you from doing this.
Ask yourself the following questions:
“What are 5 things that this person values?”Can you answer this fully?
“How do I feel when I’m in this person’s presence?”
“Does this person really express interest in me, my life, my
vision, and my dreams?”
If you can’t answer at least one of these questions, the
first thing you must realize is that you don’t know this person.And what do we call people that we don’t know?Strangers.Take back your personal power and promise yourself not to ever give it
away again to a stranger.