For the past couple of months I have been posting the top posts from the past 30 days and new readers tell me it’s quite helpful so I want to continue it and decided to do it on the 15th (or thereabouts) of each month. Here are the top posts from the past 30 days. If you want to find a post easily just put some of the title in one of the search boxes (up top or to the side). If you have trouble finding one, let me know. If there is some post that you absolutely think that people need to read but isn’t making it into the top 75, please add it in the comments.
1. The Emotions of Grief During A Breakup viewed 4,927 times 2. Getting Past Your Breakup 3. Have Your “Built In Forgetter” Removed 4. 12/29 TFTD ~ When The Person You Love Doesn’t Love You 5. More “Getting Past Your Breakup” 6. On Deciding To Move On III 7. The Abusive and Semi-Abusive Relationship 8. The Post-Breakup No-No List 9. Good People Are Not Doormats 10. Letting Go: The Relationship Inventory 11. The Definitive Guide to Contact / No Contact 12. Being Friends With the Ex Redux 13. 3/20 TFTD ~ Infidelity: Not on the List 14. The Nonsense Zone 15. When Do You Know You’re Ready To Date Again 16. Grief, Self-Pity and Depression 17. Karma 18. Thoughts and Pix on 3/8 Seminar 19. 4/3 TFTD ~ On Splitting 20. To Be The Right Person I — My Take 21. Can you hear me now? 22. What Does This Look Like? 23. 3/27 TFTD ~ Self-Knowledge Through Pain 24. Ya Gotta Be Numero Uno or None at All 25. Obsessive “Love” (really just obsession) 26. To Be The Right Person. Reader Thoughts 27. More on the Urge To Connect With The Ex 28. Personality Disorders with a special nod to Narcissism 29. 4/7 ~ On Responsibility 30. Unequivocally Dumped 31. 8/8 TFTD ~ On Accepting Your Partner 32. MySpace Drama Redux 33. The Last Phase of Grief: Acceptance 34. From the Mailbag: Enabling 35. Book Review Thread 36. The Fools of April Edition 37. More on People Pleasing 38. 5/4 TFTD ~ On Closure 39. 4/13 TFTD ~ These Thin Lines 40. Acting Out 41. CyberCheating and You 42. 1/7 TFTD ~ On Real Love 43. On Being Friends With The Ex 44. 5/5 TFTD ~ On Fear 45. Mourning Theory 46. TFTD 2/17 ~ On Betrayal 47. Does Anybody Miss Me? 48. Obsession 49. Do You Still Love Me Redux 50. You Complete Me: Houston We Have A Problem 51. Therapists and Clients on the Blog 52. 1/14 TFTD ~ How Do I Stop? 53. 4/27 TFTD ~ On Uncertainty 54. 9/26 TFTD ~ On Self Soothing 55. Relationships and Intimacy 56. 7/3 TFTD ~ More on “No Contact” 57. Being Unavailable v. Playing A Game 58. Healing 59. 12/28 TFTD ~ On Defense Mechanisms 60. 6/23 TFTD ~ On The (Not So) Secret 61. MySpace Drama 62. 11/23 TFTD ~ On Narcissism 63. Loving Yourself / Being Good To You 64. Don’t Give Up The Day Before The Miracle Happens 65. 9/25 TFTD ~ On Triangulation 66. Is (Was) Your Relationship Good For You? 67. 9/23 TFTD ~ More On Blame 68. Oh That Google 69. When You Absolutely Positively Have To See The Ex 70. 10/7 TFTD ~ Forgiveness and Amends 71. Red Flags: Can You Leave At The First Sign of One? 72. 1/19 TFTD ~ More On Transformation 73. 9/19 TFTD ~ More On Rejection 74. 3/2 TFTD ~ On Trust 75. Platitude Hall of Fame II