At the end of the recent Flow~Integration webinar, this question was asked: “Nothing I ever try …works. EVER. No technique, no advice. how would this be different?”.
Before I make an attempt to explain how flow coaching is different let me say this:
It is not as unusual a question as you might think. In fact, many of the people that come to me have spent years and years doing spiritual/personal work and that’s how they feel, initially. Some of them are in their 50s, 60s and even 70s and have basically lost hope in ever moving forward. And then we start on the Flow~Integration journey and they move on anyway. How come? What’s the magic?
It’s not really magic, and here’s how I found it
When I was around 40 (that’s a long time ago ) and after having done all kinds of psychological, therapeutic and spiritual work for some 20 years, I found myself in a similar place. It was an utterly hopeless and also terrifying place and if I wasn’t pushed there (by life itself) I would never had found the courage to move through it I guess. That’s where I found it and that’s what I’m sharing now, basically. Plus a whole lot of experience, and the love and wisdom that is there too.
But it’s not a magic trick, it’s not a recipe, not a technique or a set of rules, it’s not even a predefined process. You cannot control flow that way. But you can learn how to flow with it and claim its gifts!
Through the Flow~Integration based coaching, I offer a very simple way of connecting with the flow that is within you already. From there I gradually support you in moving through a transformation on your own terms.
It’s like alchemy in a sense. All the ingredients are already there – we just add some presence, some loving energy (shakti, one of my clients called it) , some wisdom and lots of experience to it – and then it starts moving.
You don’t even have to believe that it will work – it works anyway. Because change is your nature and that’s what you do – you learn how you can connect with your true nature, with your being.
Simple practices and tools and advice are being offered too, but they are in a sense secondary to that primary process of you simply becoming you.
Because you don’t need to be changed – there is nothing wrong with you! All you need is to set yourself free.
It’s a gradual process, a gradual way for you to experience more of your joy, your purpose, your freedom – and from there choose the life that you want, one step at a time.
And you know, most people that come to me, cannot even explain how they know this is right for them. They just know it, or feel it. If you have that feeling, regardless of your self-doubt, trust it and I will be the catalyst for your transformation.