Expensive dates She wants to go to the most expensive restaurant, the most exclusive club, the hottest play -- and expects you to fund the whole thing without a whimper. What' s her mind game?: She' s aware that you know that if you don' t fork over the cash, you won' t have a prayer of getting her into bed. To make matters worse, she might even do this if she has unequivocally no intention of having sex with you. Woe to you if you' ve already proven to her that you' re desperate for sex -- your credit card is going to be smoking.