How do you feel about your estranged husband or boy friend? Are they not a threat to your security when in their company? It becomes so hard to know whether they have any hidden bitterness and agenda towards you. The feelings and affection that you used to have towards each other cannot dry up to the extent of being forgotten. The bitterness of a break up takes time to heal and though seemed to be forgotten, there are still some wounds which may never be healed. Take precautions by avoiding going to secluded places that might lead to temptations and cause harm to you. Avoid places that you used to visit when you were once in love otherwise it lingers the memory of the past and re-ignite the intimate feelings for each other. Your estranged husband or boy friend might be suffering without your knowledge when he thinks of the past. If you arrange for a meeting with your estranged husband or boy friend, ensure that you are accompanied by a third party. Avoid secret meetings with him whether he insists of it or not. You should not be free to meet him and trust him as you used to do before. Avoid compromising and stick always unto your decision and stand on your own principles. Let him honor your decisions and respect your freedom of choice, after all he is no longer your husband or boy friend.
Avoid visits to your house by your estranged husband or boy friend. Your house should be out of bound to him and you should never make a mistake of arranging meetings at your house with him. Take heed of proposals that suggests your house as the meeting place. I would suggest hotels and restaurant as your meeting place option. The reason as to why hotels and restaurant should be your better option is that in hotels there are other people meeting and the feeling of insecurity will no longer be felt. In a hotel security is guaranteed he cannot do any harm to you while you are there unlike while in secluded places.
When it becomes too much and your estranged husband becomes a threat you can relocate to another state or city and change your address. A change is as good as a rest and if you feel suffocated by your ex-lover you can move far from him and keep off from him. Make sure he doesn't know where you live and your new residence. Take enough precautions i believe prevention is better than a cure. Also avoid confrontations with your estranged husband or boy friend and verbal exchange. Take care of your emotions towards him rest you rekindle the past love. I would want to summarize and say that frankly speaking there is no need of you meeting him if you have no intention of coming back together. Meeting him opens sweet memories of what you used to enjoy together. He might take advantage of the whole thing and within a short time you find you are back together.
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