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Enjoying the now relationships instead of waiting for some future pleasure

Posted Sep 21 2012 4:25pm
west los angeles counseling for getting the most of your relationships

photograph copyright, Jeanette Raymond, Ph.D.

 

Are you so eager to see friends or loved ones that you haven't seen for a while that you miss out on what is available to you in the moment?

Do you find yourself imagining the future with your long lost connections that you dismiss or devalue what you are receiving in the here and now?

Then you are doing a great disservice to yourself and to the people you are with.

You are depriving yourself of feeling loved and wanted by those actually with you, and giving them the message that they are no longer on your radar.

That can make it hard when you want to reconnect or when you feel the loss of them down the road.

You may be afraid that you have to push the old stuff away to make room for the new, but that isn't true.

Watch this video and learn how to be secure in having both so that you always feel loved, wanted and important to all those in your life and vice versa.

 

 

 

copyright, Jeanette Raymond, Ph.D.

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Disclaimer: this article is for informational and educative purposes only. There is no liability on the part of Dr. Raymond for any reactions you may have while reading the article or implementing the suggestions therein. Interacting with this material does not constitute a therapeutic relationship with Dr. Raymond.

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