Emotional Unavailability: He Blows Hot & Cold - You become ‘The Pursuer’
Posted Jul 26 2008 10:19am
Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl will be available to download in a few hours which will totally lift the lid on who the Fallback Girl is and who she fits in so well with emotionally unavailable men. In this adapted excerpt, I illustrate why you tie in so well with the age-old trick of him blowing hot and cold to control you...
In every single email and telephone discussion I have had with the many Fallback Girl’s, every, single, last one, has revealed that there were some, or even a lot of things that made them uncomfortable or got their ‘spidey senses’ going in the early days of the relationship, such as the blowing hot and cold and the ever changing excuses, and yet…nothing. They didn’t do anything, or at least not anything constructive that would truly benefit them. Now I don’t deny that these men are assclowns, fronters, and morphers, and some of them are extremely good at being deceptive, but the one thing that Fallback Girl’s are guilty of is blindly pursuing their own agenda, even though they have signals to the contrary.