Do you have to choose between romance and a good mate?
Posted Mar 21 2014 4:30pm
Are you frustrated with having good dates in your life but no one that sparks that romantic fire?
Do you find yourself irresistibly attracted to someone who is a hot and steamy date, but does nothing for you in the friendship department?
Perhaps you wonder whether you will ever find a person whom you could trust and rely on while also having good sex.
It's probable that you are keeping these two needs so separate that you have to split yourself in half in order to satisfy both parts.
But it doesn't have to be that way – if you figure out what purpose it serves to tear yourself into two pieces.
That's exactly what I helped my client understand when he had almost given up hope of ever finding a woman that he both liked as a friend and found sexually attractive. The video below tells the story.
Watch the video and you can discover what fears you are grappling with that stop you from having your cake and eating it too.
Disclaimer: this article is for informational and educative purposes only. Dr. Raymond is not responsible for any reactions you may have when reading the content or using the suggestions therein. Interacting with this material does not constitute a therapeutic relationship with Dr. Jeanette Raymond, Ph.D.