Do not allow a woman to define your sense of self-worth (325 reads)
Posted Jun 27 2009 10:31pm
Women may be able to see the benefits that a good guy has, but in terms of his chances of becoming a sex partner/lover, these are usually detriments to his being in the female mind. In fact, just listen to how illogical a woman sounds by praising a good man, but then trashing him when it comes to the thought of being with him. A paradox, isn' t it? Women say they want this in a mate, yet spurn them. How wise is it to try to justify the feat of calling stupidity wisdom?
There' s nothing wrong with being a good guy. In fact, there isn' t enough goodness in the world. The best defenses a good guy has, or any man of that matter, is not to allow a woman define his sense of worth or his being. The other is to accept himself, for better or for worse, for who he his. The neglect and ignorance of these ideals are how women have gotten into their present position of power in the realm of courtship/sex.