I suffer with sleeping alone in "our" bedroom while my wife of 14
years, sleeps in our two pre-teen sons' bedroom. I've tried to talk
and reason with her about this important problem, only to fall on deaf
ears. I'm desperate. What else can i do? How can i
get an autographed copy of your book? I do a lot of reading in our bed since not
much else ever happens.
It sounds like you need some help getting through to your wife, so why not go for counseling? A
counselor would tell her that what she's doing is not good for your sons or your marriage. Be
aware that she may want out of the marriage -- do you understand what turned her off? I'm not
sure you're telling me everything, and I'm certainly not hearing her side.