Boost Your Self Confidence And Become Irresistible!
Posted Feb 10 2009 10:18am
Going through a case of the ‘blahs’? Maybe feeling like you’ll never find ‘that special someone’ or that the special someone you are with just doesn’t seem interested??
I think deep down everyone is somehow searching. Searching for the right mate, searching for ways to find happiness, searching for ways to be appreciated. We’ve all been there, once or twice.
It may sound cliché but the truth is, if you are willing to boost yourself up, then others will quickly take notice. Think about the times that you have been in love or the times that you have felt most alive and happy. Those are the times when you were attracting people TO you – effortlessly.
I’ll bet that these are also the instances in which you felt energized by life. THAT, right there, is the key to attaining and maintaining your irresistibility!! Everyone is attracted to those who carry the “spark of life” and everyone has the potential to shine.
It doesn’t matter what shape or size you are, it doesn’t matter what job you have or what people you know. What matters is how you treat yourself and how you view the world around you.
Optimists have this easier, as they are naturally pulled toward looking at life with a positive frame of mind. Pessimists are a little more tricky, they have to consciously decide that they are convinced that the sun can shine on the gloomiest of days.
Trust me, I am about the most positive person I know, and even “I” have my moments where I would just rather lie down and feel poopy then look on the bright side. Okay, well that happens to the best of us but what is important is not allowing those times to take up the majority of your life.
After all, life is short. Problems will always be there, but LIFE itself won’t. I know the bills are there. We all have them, but I choose to gain strength in that moment when I notice I’m having a good hair day or when my son looks cute smiling at me even with his runny nose.