My name is Ariane, I came across your blog. First off, thank you for offering your email to those who need advice or help! I can' t stress enough how grateful I am for that!
Second, the reason I am emailing you is because I read your article about "Love or Emotional dependency", and
I struggle with emotional dependency. I am in a relationship with this guy- we have been together for 3 years. We are both Christians, and have been waitingfor marriage. Before we started dating, we both struggled with ' self esteem' and feelings of no self worth. Over the time of our relationship, I can see where we were both looking to be filled up by the other person. We both tried to shove each other into the ' void' there seems to be. But what ends up happening is we have bad arguments, and we are both unhappy.
I really don' t know what to do. We tried to break it off...but I feel I can' t do anything without him. I acknowledge this is a problem. I just don' t know what to do.