If you’re like most guys, you probably haven’t. And as such, most men, unaware of the numerous ways they can boost their sexual skill and ‘lasting’ power, regularly produce mediocre performances in bed, leaving themselves disappointed and the women they’re with disillusioned and usually orgasmless. It’s a real shame.
In a poll, 93% of men asked, said they’d like to last longer in bed before ejaculating, but 100% of those men were unaware of how they could achieve such a seemingly impossible feat.
You Can Last Longer In Bed
The truth is, it’s not impossible (or even difficult) to maximize your sexual performance and attain complete control over how long you boogie for and generally get on down with the ladies.
So, let’s take a look at one sexual method that’ll allow you massive control over your arousal levels and always give you the choice of when to cum or when to continue.
During sex, most men begin to lose control of themselves (in terms of ejaculation!) at around the 2 or 3 minute mark which is usually midway through the first sexual position. And what a letdown ejaculating at this point would be! So, that’s usually the first point at which you’ll use this technique.
It involves two steps. The first takes place in your mind which is the root of many a male’s sexual performance troubles.
First, Don’t Panic!
1. When you first feel those telltale sensations in your penis (the heightened sensitivity and energy that let you know that if you carry on doing what you’re doing you’ll soon explode) don’t panic! Too many men are pushed over the edge, right to ejaculation, because they mentally begin to panic when they feel they’re close to orgasm.
Panic phrases rush through their heads, like: "Uh oh, I’m gonna blow!" and " Not again, this is going to be embarrassing." Instead of letting these counter-productive thoughts fill your mind and quicken the onset of orgasm, instead calmly say in your head: "Okay, I’m close to ejaculating. Time to use an arousal step-down technique." Then move onto step number two.
Maintaining eye contact with your partner will help make this experience an emotional one and will help take the focus off of the sexual aspect and will help you both relax. If things get overly passionate this is where practicing your muscle control can come in. Do just as you practiced while urinating and use the muscle control techniques to hold your orgasm.