7 Tips on How to Satisfy Him in Bed Better Than Any Other Woman
Posted Apr 13 2011 5:40pm
Ladies, if you are serious about satisfying him better than ever before - listen up. Men aren't as complicated as they may seem at first. If you want to conquer him and make him go insane over you, you have to give him the best sex humanly possible. You have to give him more pleasure in bed than he got from all the other women he's been with before you. The thing is that you don't have to be the best in the World, you just have to better than other women he comes across with. And that's not that hard, considering that the average woman is clueless when it comes to satisfying a guy completely.
I won't tell you what you would like to hear, I'll tell you what actually works, in real life. If you to hear fairy tales, you are free to leave, if you want results, read on.
1. Learn how to give proper blow jobs. Really, this is an almost mandatory skill that you have to master. If he ever got better oral from a woman before you, he'll expect at least the same quality for you. Men rarely go backwards sexually and if he got amazing oral before, he'll wish to continue getting it from you as well. Learn the art of oral sex and you'll immediately be among the top 10% of women that know how to satisfy a man completely. A woman that's great in bed but has no idea how to give proper oral is just considered as incomplete. It's worth learning it.
2. Do what other women will not. That's the second step. To truly satisfy your guy you have to be ready to do what other women find "disgusting" or "yukee". Show total devotion. If you really like this guy there is nothing that can disgust you about him. Swallowing shouldn't even be a question. Do all the kinky stuff you can imagine and let go sexually. If you are constantly thinking whether doing "this" or "that" will make him think that you are S-word (you know what), you'll never end up being the best he could have. Let go and be free, have fun with him and make his satisfaction your satisfaction. Deny nothing. If he wants anal, do it, try it. Be open for new things.
3. Show total devotion by being more submissive. It is natural that men want to dominate in bed, so let him do it. Most men feel more manly if they can take control and have sex with you all around the house, take control over you and dominate you. Let him do this, be his "slave" and submit to him sexually, let him do ( and enjoy it ) anything he wants to do with you in bed. Be flexible and open about new things. Be open for learning new things and experimenting, but don't force things, make things fun instead of forced.
4. Start talking dirty, or dirtier. The right words can be like magic. If you know what to say, when to say it and most importantly How to say it, your man will explode from pleasure instantly. Learn what makes him go nuts and tell the right things at the right moments. Nothing is more boring that a woman that makes no sound in bed and when we have to wonder whether she's dead or not. Be active in bed, flexible, let him move you around. Also - if you say the Wrong things and are afraid you might sound stupid, you probably will end up sounding stupid. Be confident. If you believe in what you say, anything you say will sound good. That's why it's more important how you say it than what you say exactly. Talk dirty to him and Be "dirtier" in every way possible. Be his personal Porn Star and he'll love you for it.
5. Surprise him when he least expects it. There's nothing worse than monotony in bed. That's why you should have sex Outside of the bedroom, as often as possible. Make it memorable. Give him head in the car. Wake him up with a blow job. Have sex in a public toilet, or in his office. When he comes home, "attack" him the moment he comes in the house. Kill the routine. There's nothing nicer than being wanted. Be sexy for him and initiate things. You should never be asked to go down on him, instead do it yourself and do it for your own pleasure, not his.
6. Work out regularly. Yes, you should take care of your looks as much as possible. Work out regularly, smell good and be as tight as possible. If you are light and easy for him to carry around in bed your sex life will be much more satisfying. This is the cold hard truth. And don't do this because of him, do it because of yourself. You'll feel a lot sexier in your own body and you'll be more self confident. If you feel sexier in your body you'll attract him 10 times more sexually. Be fit, eat good food and take care of yourself. Silky, soft skin and a tight body, where you smell amazing will make every guy go mental just when he looks at you. Make this a lifestyle decision (staying fit) and do it together with him. You'll see how this can transform your sex life completely and you'll please him much more like this.
7. Role play. Role playing can be great and it will make your sex life a lot more fun. You should role play all the time, but do it sometimes to spice things up. Role playing is great as it gives you freedom to experiment and be somebody else, discover each others fantasies and fulfill them at least in an imaginary way. It's better if he does it with you, than with somebody else:) Except if his fantasy is having you and your best girlfriend together in a threesome. Well - a girlfriend that really loves him would even do that just to satisfy him.
The good thing is that you already have the right mindset for being a "perfect girlfriend" (or wife) and that's your willingness to satisfy him. That's a great quality and it will get you far, as everything you give, comes back, eventually. So give, give and give some more and you'll see your relationship transform (and your sex life:) Start applying some of these essential tips and you'll go far. Most importantly: Have fun!