6 Proven Ways to Keep Your Boyfriend Faithful by Making Him Happy and Satisfied in Bed
Posted Apr 30 2011 12:41pm
Hey girl. There's no reason for your boyfriend to cheat on you or even think about leaving you if you know how to keep him happy and satisfied in your relationship. How do you do that? The answer may sound shallow, but it's the truth. It's sex. And not just good sex, but truly amazing sex.
If you can satisfy your boyfriend and give him pleasure beyond anything he got before, he'll give his best to keep you. Men don't like to go backwards sexually. All you have to do is please him better than the women before you did. Here are 6 real life tips that are proven to work just to get you started.
1. Be unique, one of a kind. The more special you are the better. If you are just like any other woman out there that's average in bed then he won't think much of you or feel any different than he felt for other women in his life. Men aren't that complicated, you can literally get them addicted to you and make them fall in love just with the power of great sex. Everything else will just be a detail. Master the art of pleasuring him and everything else will be easy. So, how can you be unique? Basically - do what other women don't.
Do all these special things for him that most other women don't do for men in bed. Can you give him amazing oral? A lot of women don't swallow, you should. That will make you unique and above average in his sexual history. Think of all the things that most women don't do and do it. You'll literally see instant effects in his behavior towards you. Anyway, find a way to be special by doing special things and making him feel special emotions in bed. Do what other women will not. Look better than other women, make him feel better, make him orgasm stronger. All these things will make you special in his eyes. Expand his sexual horizons.
2. Don't just treat him well, treat him like a King. In sex, the more you can give your guy, the more he'll give you back. And I'm not just saying that he'll give you back in tons of pleasure in bed, he'll actually give you back more of other things - love, emotions, help around the house, whatever you desire you'll get back if you give first. So focus on giving.
Develop a 110% pleasing personality in bed. Make it your main goal and make it Your pleasure to give your boyfriend pleasure. A lot of women don't want to give until they get, or expect the guy to do everything and blame the guy for everything. Change your way of thinking. Women that are natural pleasers always, really Always have happier relationships. A pleaser is a keeper! Everything can improve if you can develop the right attitude in bed.
3. Make it fun and memorable. The bedroom, the bedroom again, and again, and again. After some time it gets boring, not just for him, but for you as well. And boring is dangerous, as it can destroy your sex appeal and your desire for sex. Every time you have sex, have sex like it's the last time you'll have sex in your life. Make it memorable, make it unique. Give him a little treat every time and you'll get him sexually addicted to you.
Change locations. You've got the kitchen, the floor, the bathroom. Have sex in the nature. Go on a road trip. Give him road head. Get creative. The possibilities for new sex locations and positions are unlimited. Invest some energy into making your sex life amazing and your relationship will flourish as a result. He'll never have to look elsewhere for satisfaction.
4. Play games, role-play. Role playing can transform your sex life completely. And you'll be able to give him the best pleasure ever by using games. Find ways to make sex more interesting for both of you. The reason role playing and games in general are great is because you can be whoever you want to be. There are no boundaries. Find out what his fantasies are and make them a reality through role playing.
Be a nurse, let him be plumber, tie him to a chair and give him an amazing blow job, get him to "punish" you, be whatever he wants you to be. If you can make all his fantasies a reality he'll faint from pleasure and he'll want you all the time. Games can also set you free of any shyness or fear of letting go and just enjoying the whole thing. You have to be seductive, sexual and feminine, so that you can get the sexual animal out of him. Awaken the animal in him that wants you more than anything, it exists.
5. Start talking dirty to him. The right words at the right time can be magical. Remember, your boyfriends orgasm happens between his ears, not just between his legs. So learn how to conquer his mind, not just his penis. You can achieve that by saying the dirtiest and kinkiest stuff you can imagine and role playing can enable you to say whatever you want without the fear of appearing dumb or making it sound awkward.
The golden rule of talking dirty is that you believe in what you say. If you think it will sound stupid - it will. What's important is How you say it, not what you say. Learn the magic words and you'll take him to sexual Heaven.
6. Find out what your boyfriend really wants from you in bed. What's important is that you understand what men really want from you in bed. The more you understand him the better you'll be able to please him and the happier he'll be. I'll tell you what most guys really want. Did you ever wonder why men watch porn? If you didn't, you should. Men want you to desire them in bed more than anything and to submit to them sexually, to let them dominate you.
You can achieve that by letting him do whatever he wants to do to you in bed. Deny your boyfriend nothing, give him everything. That's the true way to completely pleasing him in bed. Great sex will keep any guy coming back for more and make him stay loyal forever. You have to let go of your fears of appearing like a "sl#t" and be sexually liberated with your boyfriend in bed, you have to learn how to turn on all of his senses and please him completely by conquering him psychologically, not just physically. Don't worry, your boyfriend will not look down upon you if you behave "dirty", on the contrary - he'll adore you for it.
Applying just these six tips will already make your boyfriend a lot happier and satisfied. Remember to have fun and make it all a game, it's not a job or a chore, just let go, have fun and don't worry too much.
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