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5 Easy Blowjob Techniques To Start With

Posted Jun 05 2012 10:00am

While a blowjob might sound pretty simple, just putting your mouth on your man’s penis doesn’t mean that you’ll actually be able to do it well. To give great head, you’ve got to experiment with different techniques and moves to find the ones that absolutely set your man on fire! Every guy is going to be different – one guy might really get off on you licking his scrotum while you grasp his penis tightly in your hands, while another guy might love it when you suck firmly on the head of his penis.

It’s important to pay attention to a man’s body language when going down on him and if one technique doesn’t work, it’s time to move on to another. Just make sure you give your guy enough time to decide whether he likes the technique you’re using or not. Don’t move too quickly between techniques without giving him enough time to get used to what you’re doing.

While licking alone doesn’t necessarily feel awesome for your guy, it’s a great warm up technique because it gives him an excellent show! You don’t want to use a licking maneuver halfway into a blowjob, because it’s not enough stimulation to work him towards an orgasm . However, it’s an excellent way to get him turned on and wanting more!

How To Do It

Grasp the base of your lover’s penis with your hand, holding it in place. If you grasp firmly (but not too tight), you’ll keep the blood inside the penis, engorging the head and making it more sensitive to your maneuvers.

Stick your tongue way out and lick all over your lover’s penis while looking deep into his eyes and smiling now and then. You want to look like you’re really enjoying it! Enthusiasm is key with this technique.

Experiement with a soft, wet tongue or a pointed hard tongue. Make a mental note of which areas he seems to like stimulated best and when he moans and groans the loudest. Jot these down on your “mental map” of his body and what he likes best so you can focus on those areas more next time – and avoid the areas that don’t seem to do anything for him.

Again, this is definitely more of a warm up technique than it is a main move, but it can be very effective at getting men hot and bothered. Most women tend to ignore a man’s balls when going down on him, either because they’re hairy, they smell or it just seems like concentrating on the penis is a better idea. However, if you can give your lover’s scrotum some sexy attention, he’ll love feeling like he’s getting licked from top to bottom.

How To Do It

This is an excellent maneuver to move into and back and forth from when you’re doing the licking technique we just mentioned. You’ll continue to grasp your lover’s penis at the base, but this time instead of holding it in place for you to lick it all over, you’ll move it up and out of your way, exposing his scrotum and pulling up on it at the same time. As his scrotum is exposed, lick from the bottom of it all the way to the top, and all around. The most effective tongue stroke here is with a wide, soft tongue. Make sure you’re using plenty of saliva or have dabbed on a generous amount of flavored lube . This is a technique much better done warm and wet!

Part of the incredible experience of fellatio is feeling each and every sensation your tongue, mouth and lips create. Don’t rush it – go super slow for the first several minutes of the blowjob. Hold out for as long as you can, and if you’re really into pleasing him and hearing him squeal with delight, you’ll surprise yourself with how long you can keep this up. No matter what technique you’re using, go sllllooooowww.

Let him concentrate on every movement on every inch of his penis. This will allow him to become super absorbed in the act, forgetting time and space completely. When you finally bring him to climax , he’ll be much more sensitive and his orgasm will be that much more powerful.

This move feels so incredible when compared to the standard “up and down” or “in and out” moves that a regular ol’ blowjob consists of. It can be hard on the neck, so don’t expect yourself to be able to keep it up for very long. However, when used at the right time – past the foreplay or warm up mode but before you get into the rhythm mode where you’re building his orgasm – it can feel so good it makes his legs shake! He’ll want to be lying down for this one, or his knees just might give out on him!

How To Do It

Get your lover’s penis as far as you can into your mouth and as you’re coming back up, twist your head to the right and left so your tongue and mouth twists over the shaft and head of his penis. Don’t concentrate on how your twisting your mouth – just point the top of your head to the left and then to the right as you slide your mouth up his penis. Don’t do this on the downward stroke – it’s not as effective as you twist while you’re sliding his shaft out of your mouth.

As your lover is getting closer and closer to ejaculation , he’s heating up and you’re getting ready to finish him off. Whether you’re getting tired of being in between his legs, your neck has got a cramp and you’re ready for it to be over with, or you’re just excited about giving him a mind bending orgasm, there comes a time when you want to finish things up. This technique is perfect for building his climax even further and bringing him over the edge of an amazing orgasm.

How To Do It

This is a technique best used while your lover is in a sitting position, because you really need to have a lot of leverage here. If he’s lying down and you’re holding yourself up with your hands, you’re not going to be able to do this well, if at all. Grasp the base of his penis again with your dominant hand and move it up and down as though you were giving him a handjob . You only want to go about halfway up the shaft though – you’re going to work your mouth over the head of his penis and your lips should meet your hand.

Move your hand and your lips in sync – both going down and up at the same time. Count in your head to keep your rhythm, or listen to music. You don’t want to break the rhythm, because it will cause him to have to “start over.” Continue to do this faster and faster until you’re really working on him! It won’t be long before he’s ready to shoot his load!

These five techniques are easy to do and will take you from the beginning of a blowjob to the very end. There is, of course, many more techniques you can use, but who doesn’t want to get started right away? Stop reading right now and go treat your man to some intense new blowjob techniques that will make him say, “Wow! Where the **** did you learn that?!?”

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