3 Real Ways to Make Any Guy Fall Deeply in Love With You
Posted Apr 26 2011 6:09am
Are you fed up with all the nonsense advice you get from popular female magazines out there? Of course you are. You and I both know that they'll rarely give you any valuable ideas that work in real life. As a guy with probably much more experience than the average Joe I believe I can tell you what really works, for a change, when it comes to winning over a guy's heart. And no, it's not the general advice: give him space, cook him a nice meal and stop nagging all day. Sure, to a certain extent that works as well:), but let's focus on the Core way to really "conquer" any guy you want.
The real way to get that guy loving you more than you can imagine is a simple, 3 letter word. You guessed it: Sex. The way to a man's heart is through his penis. Whether you like it or not - that's the cold, hard truth.
Did I tell you anything new? Probably not. But let me elaborate.
A lot of you ladies are completely clueless when it comes to sex. You believe that you are "good in bed", or maybe your ex told you so, or whatever. But how can you know for sure? After being with more women than I can remember, honestly, most of you are lost in space when it comes to pleasing a guy to the fullest. Sure, you can maybe get him to orgasm - but just because he came doesn't mean that it was the best orgasm he's capable of having.
Every guy has a few different levels of orgasm strength. There's the regular orgasm, then the little bit better one - and then, there's earth-shattering, hitting the table and screaming out in pleasure that seems like it lasts forever! And most of you ladies have NO idea how to get your guy to that level.
If you did - he would look at you completely differently. You would be unique, the only woman that's capable of pleasing him to a mind-blowing level - and, as you probably know, most guys think with their genitals. It's very easy to fall deeply in love with a woman with these "magical" skills. And they truly are magical.
So, what I'm trying to say is that - the ONLY sure way to get a guy not just deeply in love with you, but basically sexually addicted to You, is by giving him that third level of earth-shattering orgasms. Once you can accomplish that, you'll have any guy want eating out of your hands and doing everything in his power to keep you.
"Okay, so how do I give him that "third level" of orgasm?" I can already hear some of you asking.
I won't give you 173 "new, funky and fresh tips" for pleasing him better in bed, like the magazines do. Instead, I'll give you only 3 real life tips that actually get results. And if this doesn't work - nothing will.
1. Change your attitude in bed. That's the first step. When you're in bed with your guy (or outside), you have to have a "pleasing attitude." This means that you have to focus all your attention to satisfying him and making him feel like a King! In bed, treat your guy as if your one and only goal (in life!) is to please him to the fullest. Have a more giving personality, and give without expecting anything in return.
Basically, if you are ready to do anything for your guy in bed - because giving him pleasure ultimately gives You pleasure - he'll love you for it. A lot of women just jump on the bed and expect the guy to do everything. Don't be one of those girls (or, cows, how women like that are commonly called by guys).
In bed - be flexible, move around, do whatever you can to make him feel amazing. Create a good atmosphere, talk dirty to him, role play - surprise him with new things and make it fun, not a chore. It's very important to shift your thinking from "I'm giving him this and he should be happy he got anything." into "I can't wait to make him scream from pleasure!"
Remember girls, if you're a pleaser, men will label you as a "Keeper!" - with a capital "K":)
2. Now that you've improved your attitude a bit, the next real life tip is: blow jobs. Yes, you read it right. Since you made the decision to be more of a pleaser in bed, this implies that you have to make any fantasy your guy has a reality. And one of those fantasies are perfect blow jobs. Every guy wants them more than anything. And it's a skill that most women lack, so - if you can be part of the 10-20% of women that know how to give amazing blow jobs, it will be much easier to conquer any guy. Focus on developing this skill by practicing on your guy as much as possible. Surprise him with oral sex whenever you can and please him to the best of your ability.
The key here is that you observe his reactions to your skills so that you can read him properly and know how to adjust your technique to the guy you are with. Don't be afraid to be as "dirty" as possible. Men want you to be an angel for their Mom and a wh#re in bed. So let go and be free - sexual liberation rules! As for blow jobs I'll tell you the basics: talk dirty, love doing it more than life itself and swallow. Spitters are quitters!
At this point your guy is already 100 times more satisfied and happy to be with you. Following these tips can get him to that "third level" of orgasm I was talking about (where his eyes pop out and his brain freezes).
3. Last but not least is figuring out something very important - his brain. A lot of you ladies believe that we are robots and that anything can turn us on. Well, it can't. It's not just about your skills or your technique - what counts is your ability to master your guys emotions. Guys are visual - so they want to see stuff, you in high heels, with a nice tan, a tight body, sexy thongs, a smile and a nice atmosphere.
Focus on capturing all of his senses, because his orgasm happens in his brain. At least - that's where the "third level" orgasms do. To get to that level, you have to master his mind, not just his penis. Mastering the physical aspects of sex aren't that hard, but mastering his emotions, how he feels during sex etc. are a completely different thing. You have to know what to say, and how to say it. The right words can be magical.
As long as you have the general guideline of treating him like a King, you can't go wrong. Work on that attitude and you'll see near-instant results of love, love and more love. Did I mention love?:)
He's your King and you should be his Queen that adores pleasing her "Master" and "Royal Highness." Deny him nothing, give him everything. And you'll get back everything you invest, and much, much more. I guarantee you that.
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