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12-Day Countdown to 2012 – Day 8: Set Your Intentions for Sex and Sensuality

Posted Dec 24 2011 7:59pm
Written by Tera on December 24, 2011 – -

- by Tera Warner

Purrrrr, Frisky Kitten!

I am SO excited for next year’s WISH Summit, because some of the friskiest sisters I know will be presenting on Sex and Sensuality!

You have GOT to get signed up for the call with Nicole Daedone and Michaela Boehm! These two ladies, along with Mama Gena, my dear friend Alisa Vitti and the many other inspirational firecrackers I’ve come to know have been helping me nurture my wild side and open up wide to the world of pleasure.

Now, let’s be clear that sensuality and sex are not the same thing…

Sex vs. SensualityWhen I think of my sensuality, I think of how gracefully and deliciously I can move into my curves. How do you experience sensation and pleasure?

These experiences do not need to be limited to the bedroom or even to an intimate space. For example, when you go to the grocery store and pick out your fruits and vegetables, do you really see, feel, smell and experience the full range of delicious sensations that are there for you in the moment?

2012 is going to offer a whole new world of exploration here for us to open into. Nicole Daedone’s work on the female orgasm is going to take the huffing and puffing and porn star myth out of the intimate act and put in its place a widening, awakening, deepening experience!

How do you want to let your inner kitten purr in 2012?

What wild and wonderful, erotic, ecstatic experiences will you create for yourself?

Sex and SensualitySet your intentions below and let me know how intend to embrace the sensuality that is inherent in YOU!  …Not to mention other fun stuff in the areas of pleasure and sex!

Set your intentions and watch your cheeks start to blush before you finish writing them!

Here’s to you, pleasure-seeker! Make 2012 a juicy one!

Love and boas,

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  1. By Pat on Dec 24, 2011

    Sex & Sensuality
    My intention is appreciation for my body and for the pleasure it can give me when it is in top cared for shape. My intention requires that care be lavished on my body to create a vibrant, healthy, sexy body.


  2. By Polly on Dec 24, 2011

    Well, to have some. I’ve been single too long. I would like to have a lover.


  3. By Beth on Dec 24, 2011

    We had a waitress today who seemed to embody sensuality. It wasn’t slutty or inappropriate; she just seemed so happy in her body, in the moment. She was genuine and friendly and moved with pleasure for life and each moment that she encounters. I thought about how I wish I could portray such passion in my job – she was at work! On Christmas Eve! I now set the intention to try to live more like that waitress this year. To be more comfortable with my sensuality; to live in the moment and observe all of the sensations that surround me in each and every one; to breathe passion into each movement.


    Reply by Danielle on December 24th, 2011

    Oh my goodness… I love this! Thanks for sharing this story Beth. With your words I can totally see her, and imagine this Christmas Eve scenario. I’m borrowing this to add to my intentions too!


    Reply by Beth on December 25th, 2011

    This waitress blew me away – I don’t think I had ever encountered someone who so fully embodied their sensuality in such a wonderful, non-sexual way (she wasn’t hitting on us, though I sat there imagining if we were young, handsome people how it might come across like that). I’m glad I had this story to share with you, Danielle! :)


  4. By Mary K. on Dec 24, 2011

    To release the sensual being within and enjoy my womanhood regardless of my body shape!


  5. By Lynnette Struble on Dec 24, 2011

    I intend to allow my body’s responses to sensual pleasure awaken. And I intend to slow down when making love, so I can be present for all the sensations.


  6. By Cindy Alvarez on Dec 24, 2011

    I don’t usually have time to really take care of myself because I’m so busy taking care of everyone else. So, my intention for 2012 is to take better care of myself by indulging in little pleasures every so often, such as taking a nice relaxing bath, having a cup of soothing tea, spending a whole day reading (one of my passions), & walking in the park.


  7. By Cloud on Dec 25, 2011

    My intention is to start caring for my outside at least as well as my inside. Pampering will become a necessity, rather than a wasteful indulgence.


  8. By Julie on Dec 25, 2011

    When I was walking the other night with my husband, I began to realize I need to stand up straighter! I am so busy during the day that I forget these little things! (With proper posture comes deeper breathing!) I think good/proper) posture is the first step in presenting oneself to others as having sensuality, confidence, and coming across as having a sense of well-being! …My aunt was a model in NYC and when visiting her during the summers, she would teach me and my sister the proper way to “carry” ourselves — how to stand with good posture; how to sit properly; how to walk! (She would remind us to hold our heads UP when walking rather than downward!)

    To be sensual, I also think smiling to others, having eye contact, and showing a sincere interest in others is so important! One can be dressed in cut-off-Jeans and a sweatshirt and yet because of the way a woman presents herself to others, a woman can be considered very sensual! Example, there is a woman in my neighborhood who is 70 — and I admire her so much! She is darling!!! She has the cutest youthful presentation! Her hair cut is perfect for her face; she smiles energetically — her eyes twinkle — and she has such a cute laughter! Her whole package is SO DARN CUTE and so LIVELY that I do not even notice her wrinkles! (They actually ADD to her positive features! She has confidence in herself!)

    My Intentions are put just a little time and care into my appearance in the mornings for the start of my day!


  9. By Ivy on Dec 25, 2011

    To boost my sex drive, and be more confident.


  10. By AndreaB on Dec 25, 2011

    To set “date” nights so even if we are home because the children are in bed, we still actively plan to spend the evening enjoying each others’ company.


  11. By Emily Tu on Dec 25, 2011

    In 2012 I’m tapping into the source of radiant feminine energy that’s everflowing in me.
    I make more effort to be in my feminine sensual self through dancing (attending a dance class), moving my body, being in nature more often, listening to sensuous music before going to bed, reveling in the sensuality of feel, taste and smell of things around me (food, drinks, newly laundered clothes, soft and cool bedsheet and blanket…)
    I make efforts to take care of my body through dry skin brushing, applying moisturizers daily, doing masks every week, buying essential self-care stuff with a sense of joy and tenderness, wearing more beautiful lingerie :)


  12. By Amy on Dec 25, 2011

    My intention is to allow myself to open up to sex again. I have had difficulty with it during most of my pregnancy and now almost four months after birth. It is time to open myself up to that intimacy and connection again. I will also focus on caring for my body allowing my senses to come alive.


  13. By Paige on Dec 25, 2011

    My intention for Sex and Sensuality for 2012 is to be in my feminine as much as I can making it a daily practice to connect to this part of me and to set aside a “play” night with my partner each week where we take the lead week about to just play and connect….


  14. By Lauren on Dec 25, 2011

    To give myself and my body Love within every moment.
    To embody and feel Love within every moment and for every moment. To make Love to Life, and create my Life from Love.
    To experience intimate love and sensuality in the flesh within a wholesome, pure, and nurturing connection.
    To create a partnership that embodies Love, Loving Kindness, and Sensuality.


  15. By moon on Dec 25, 2011

    i will honour and love myself more so that i can share in experiences without being self-conscious. i will be more present and in the moment to fully enjoy life’s experiences. i will seek opportunities to be more intimate rather than putting it off because i’m busy.


  16. By Isobel on Dec 25, 2011

    In Sensuality, to be aware of my body and its sensations as often as possible. To learn the samba and dance it often :) To continue to allow my sensuality to shine – I locked it away out of fear for too long and exploring it is so life-enhancing!

    Sex: to get out of my head and into my body during sex. To feel confident and proud of my body, even though it’s not air-brushed perfection! To express my feminine energy and enjoy his masculinity.


  17. By Christy on Dec 25, 2011

    I intend to be more aware of my surroundings, and to let myself take the time to truly enjoy what I’m eating, fully appreciating the way my food smells, feels, and tastes.


  18. By Valerie on Dec 25, 2011

    As A newly single after a 3 years relationship, setting a intention in the sex and sensuality area is a bit hard. But first, after a good cleansing and intense yoga pratice, I will feel self confident and pretty. Then, Ill be ready to bring back love and all those sensual feeling into my life.So my intention for 2012, is bring back love, sensuality and opening my heart to new sensation.


  19. By annette on Dec 25, 2011

    Sex & Sexuality Intentions for 2012 include making more love with my husband and nix the excuses why i can’t tonight! i have a friend who has told me what yoga and hot yoga has done for her, so i’ve signed up!


  20. By himmie on Dec 25, 2011

    I would like to be more confident with my body.


  21. By Allison on Dec 25, 2011

    To have sex and enjoy my husband instead of feeling it’s a chore.

    Even more than that, though, I intend to make the best use of my body as I can, enjoying its capabilities to move and do work (read: I’m gonna exercise so I feel my best… which helps with sex of course).


  22. By Ang on Dec 25, 2011

    I am working at getting fit, so that i can be confident again with my body.


  23. By Lilach Mutzafi on Dec 25, 2011

    wow, this is a difficult one…
    in 2012 i want to be more sensuale – more in touch with my senses: to be present in the moment, to take the time to feel, taste, smell, see the beauty around me.
    to know and feel that i am beautyful. i started doing something i heard in one of the interviews in the last WISH (i think it was mama gana): glancing in the mirror and telling myself – “you are soooo hot!” – and it works! it makes me automaticly smile, feel uplifted and beautyful!
    and i noticed that i feel more sensuale when i am loving – so in 2012 i intend to be more loving and to express this love as often as possible, to dance and be connected with my body, to feel sexsy again (maybe if i stop breastfeeding it will help…) and to have fun and loving sex-life with my husband!


  24. By Sasha on Dec 25, 2011

    I want to be more limber, flexible and toned, so that my body will feel light and not achy.


  25. By Stacy on Dec 25, 2011

    I want to feel comfortable in my body and start letting down the walls I’ve built up over the years that have kept me from really experiencing intimacy.


  26. By Marie on Dec 25, 2011

    My intention is to slow down to the speed of love – use all of my senses – not just in the bedroom – in all the rooms of my apartment and my car – and all the other places I go – restuarants, hotels, spas. And I intend to open up to please my senses and sastisfy my sexual cravings when they desire attention.


  27. By Jenni on Dec 25, 2011

    My goal for sensuality is to go back to belly dance class this summer to learn how to shake my cake again.


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