Everything seems to be trucking along fine. Quickly, as I am about 11 weeks already, but boring and most of the time I forget I'm pregnant.
We've told the husbands family and got a better response than I had imagined. I'm waiting until after my next appointment to tell my family and friends. They're the ones that have problems keeping their negative opinions to themselves. And why bother having to defend myself when it is still possible I'll have a miscarriage?
My parents are going to be the worst. When I told my mom we were getting our stuff together to move, she immediately started pointing out how we couldn't afford a big enough place and how we should just save until we can buy something. I've been trying to move for 9 years and she always has a reason why I'm going to fail. So I've stayed where I am. And hated it. Finally, at 28 I've decided I would rather fail than stay where I am. So I'm waiting to tell her. No reason to rush her attacking me from both sides. You can't stay where you are with 3 kids vs. you can't afford to buy so you're just going to throw your money away. Her head may explode. Mine definitely will.
Everything seems to be trucking along fine. Quickly, as I am about 11 weeks already, but boring and most of the time I forget I'm pregnant.
We've told the husbands family and got a better response than I had imagined. I'm waiting until after my next appointment to tell my family and friends. They're the ones that have problems keeping their negative opinions to themselves. And why bother having to defend myself when it is still possible I'll have a miscarriage?
My parents are going to be the worst. When I told my mom we were getting our stuff together to move, she immediately started pointing out how we couldn't afford a big enough place and how we should just save until we can buy something. I've been trying to move for 9 years and she always has a reason why I'm going to fail. So I've stayed where I am. And hated it. Finally, at 28 I've decided I would rather fail than stay where I am. So I'm waiting to tell her. No reason to rush her attacking me from both sides. You can't stay where you are with 3 kids vs. you can't afford to buy so you're just going to throw your money away. Her head may explode. Mine definitely will.