1. Keep reminding yourself that you are not alone. 2. Realize that dealing with infertility is an all-consuming process. 3. Stay calm. 4. Remind yourself you are not a failure if a procedure doesn't work. 5. Have a since of humor about this - even if it doesn't seem at all funny right now. 6. Do your research. Then do some more. 7. Listen to your body and your inner self. If you really listen, you'll learn those two are rarely wrong. 8. Don't rule anything out - from antibiotics to acupuncture and from yoga headstands to standing on your head during sex. 9. Find the right doctor. 10. Don't get angry at your partner for not nurturing you - he is hurting and confused, too.
Some of these made me laugh. But I can see the point in each one. I got this from a book I read about infertility and thought I would share.