Amy is mom to three-year-old Hailey. She was kind enough to take some time to answer some questions about her experience as a parent and offers some great advice for expecting parents.
1)What makes you happy, as a parent?
Oh my, so many things!I look at the world so differently now.I notice my surroundings more because I see them through my daughter’s eyes. I mostly love having someone to teach.It’s a fantastic feeling knowing that she’s learning something new each day and I play a big part of that.
2) What’s the healthiest thing about your relationship with your child?
We are very open with each other.Granted, she’s only three, but we communicate with each other very well.I hope we can keep the lines of communication open for a long, long time.
3) Kids say the cutest things. What is the funniest story you recall about your daughter?
I probably Tweet something new and cute she says everyday!One of the funniest things I always tell people is when she was just under two years old and she needed a diaper change.I told her it was time for the diaper change and she patted her butt, looked up at me and matter-of-factly said, “Nope, stays in my diapee.”That was the first time she really started showing attitude.
4) What is your proudest parenting moment?
Tough question.I have many “proud” parenting moments, hard to pick out just one.I feel very proud when we’re out and she uses her manners.I always feel good about that.She’s very polite and that is important to me.
5) What is your biggest parenting challenge?
Picking my battles and being consistent.I want to maintain openness with her throughout the years, especially when she’s school-aged.My goal is to have her always feel comfortable confiding in me, no matter what.
6) What’s your favorite family-friendly restaurant?
Oh, we LOVE dining out.I suppose my absolute favorite is Red Robin in Plainfield, IL.We go there a lot.My daughtergets her balloons, the food is good and we always have a fun time.
7) What’s your favorite activity you enjoy with Hailey?
Just being out and about. I love taking her to the zoo, museums and to the park.
8)What advice would you give to new or expecting parents?
Be prepared to be totally unprepared!Each day, each stage is something different.Embrace it.I never believed it would go as fast as it has but here I am, with a three-year-old already and I was once wishing the baby stages away!Soak it all in, ladies.
9) Who or where do you go to for parenting advice?
I generally consult friends in online communities like Twitter andThe Motherhood.Chatting with friends over the phone and running this or that by them.My mom.Of course I still go to her too.
10) How would your daughter describe you?
She’s still unbiased.Though, I’m pretty sure if you asked her, she would tell you that I’m the coolest thing since sliced bread.