1. Pictures and letters from my children's first mothers. They need them.
2. Truth and transparency between expectant mothers considering adoption, prospective adoptive parents, adoptive parents, first parents, and adoptees.
3. Tax credits for women who choose to parent and raise their child(ren), equal to the Adoption Tax Credit available to adoptive parents. There should not be more financial support for people who adopt than for the women who bear the children.
4. More support and better protection for first fathers who want to parent/would want to parent if they knew.