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If They Won’t Cosign To The Truth, It Doesn’t Invalidate It by NML Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex I talk to so many people who feel frustrated by the fact that they see the truth but others don’t or choose not to, because it feels as if the tr ... Read on »
Recovering from somebody doing a U-turn on their feelings or proclaimed intentions by NML Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex When we’re confronted with the realisation that our partner has done a  U-turn on previously expressed feelings and plans , it’s understand ... Read on »
Did they just do a U-turn? When a person overestimates their level of interest or capacity for... by NML Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex When we’re not boundaried with our time and we tell people what we think that they want to hear, we can end up overcommitted, over-schedule ... Read on »
There’s nothing wrong with wanting love and a relationship but the path we choose to achieve... by NML Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex I listen to people express their desire for a relationship and romantic love and there are a significant portion of these who come across em ... Read on »
Snooping Never Leads To Anything Good by NML Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex When I was pregnant with my first daughter, longtime readers may recall that I got into the hidden camera show ‘Cheaters’ where people who ... Read on »
Don’t conflate common interests with character and shared core values by NML Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex It’s not the biggest leap in the universe to think that because you’ve met somebody who shares similar interests to you that you also share ... Read on »
A ‘connection’ or having ‘so much in common’ isn’t the same as... by NML Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex “We have an amazing connection”, said so many people who are struggling to understand why they’re not experiencing deep, committed, loving, ... Read on »
Sometimes, you just don’t have anymore energy left to explain why you’re stepping back... by NML Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex Sometimes we can find ourselves in the position of knowing about what someone has done and not having the energy to get into some big ‘ole t ... Read on »
Forgiveness isn’t about agreeing with or condoning the other person’s behaviour;... by NML Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex As I continue making peace with my past and recognising younger parts of me that still hurt and remember, not only am I committed to being ... Read on »
Forgiveness isn’t about agreeing with or condoning the other person’s actions by NML Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex As I continue making peace with my past and recognising younger parts of me that still hurt and remember, not only am I committed to being ... Read on »
Everybody ‘bounces back’ at different rates by NML Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex It can feel very bewildering and even pressured when we are wounded by something that has happened but somebody is questioning why we haven’ ... Read on »
Just Because You’ve Agreed To Something Previously, It Doesn’t Mean That You... by NML Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex At this time of year, I hear from a lot of people who are battling against what they perceive as  the weighty expectations of their nearest ... Read on »
Other People’s Behaviour: Why do you want it to be about you? by NML Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex When you find that you’re persisting down the Other People’s Behaviour Is All About Me track and are getting stuck on blame, ask yourself, ... Read on »
There’s a difference between personality and character by NML Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex Earlier this year (I can’t believe it’s already December), I explained how  ‘charming’ tends to be a precursor to code red problems . Mist ... Read on »
Take the focus off them and bring it back to you by NML Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex Our relationships romantic and otherwise, give us a window into understanding who we are and where we need to step up for ourselves. When we ... Read on »
Being passive and a pleaser can make you a sitting duck for unavailable relationships by NML Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex Sound familiar? You’re agreeable and try not to be or do anything that would give your date an opinion on you. Unsure of who you ... Read on »
Some people collect the friendship of exes and love interests – don’t stay in the harem! by NML Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex Talking with a friend recently who was rather enamoured with a chap who was super ambiguous, a little probing revealed that this guy has a h ... Read on »
Moving past ambiguous situations: It’s OK to take a step back when they say that... by NML Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex When two people are romantically interested in each other, they make it known and it doesn’t turn into this long, drawn out, ambiguous rigam ... Read on »
Are you comfortable with your status quo? by NML Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex   If you’ve ever been involved with a Mr/Miss Unavailable , you will be familiar with being managed right down into their status quo . ... Read on »
Are you comfortable with your status quo? by NML Patient Expert Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex If you’ve ever been involved with a Mr/Miss Unavailable , you will be familiar with being managed right down into their status quo . If you ... Read on »