I am generally a pretty sunny person, and don’t like to spend a bunch of time lamenting my lot in life. Overall my lot includes beautiful children, an amazing and loving family, fantastic friends and the gift of a sense of humor (thanks, Mom). But every now and again, something just pisses me off, so allow me this rant.
Eleven years ago, when I was first diagnosed with MS, there were 3 therapies available commonly referred to as the ABC drugs: Avonex, Betaseron and Copaxone. The choices between them were wonderful: weekly injections or every other day injections or daily injections. Golly – how to choose? The first two apparently can cause such bad flu-like symptoms that after injecting, you can be down for the count for days. You’re kidding me, right? I didn’t think that was my best choice. But a daily injection? Ugh.
Fortunately, (I use the term rather tongue in cheek here…) Liza was giving herself up to 6 million insulin injections per day for her diabetes, so I was chagrined at what a pussy I was being; and we were also rich in sharpies disposal containers.
During this time we also had a cat named Lila (sister of the demon Cleo) who got sick and the vet informed me the she would require daily injections. I didn’t think so. She got exactly ONE if you take my meaning….
Anyways….so I chose the daily injectable of Copaxone, as the side effects seemed minimal. My doctor at that time was a Dr. K who worked at USC. He had been one of the early champions of Copaxone (I believe he was one of the developers of it (certainly he spearheaded up clinical trials of it) so he of course agreed with my choice. (Dr. K was great ~ he once told me after seeing my MRI that yes, in fact, I had brain rot. We shared a similar sense of humor…).
When you begin a new therapy that costs over $4,000 per month, it comes with a nurse who makes a house call. She showed me how to wash my hands, open an alcohol swab and how to mix the alchemy that was my shot. When I started this therapy, I used to have to mix up my own potion. I had little vials of stuff that I’d measure out and swirl around until the concoction was ready, and then I’d draw up my own syringe. Egad. It was like high school chemistry all over again. Oddly enough, I flew overseas one time with this make shift lab in my carry on, and nary a word was spoken through security. Must have been pre-Sept 11.
The nurse showed up with support materials: a little stick figure picture detailing the 7 points of entry: left arm, right arm, left thigh, right thigh, left hip, right hip, belly; a little calendar to put on the refrigerator to remind me of which location on which day; and an 800 number for support.
All good, let’s go. I took the first shot in my right arm. H-O-L-Y F-U-C-K. Big giant alligator tears streamed down my face ~ it HURT. In trying to describe it later to my sister I called it Bruise Juice. There was no other way to describe it. You know how when you’ve bruised yourself and you inadvertently lean on the bruise you get a very distinct and unique wave of pain that spreads up to your ears? Imagine, if possible, that feeling being injected into your body. It was the worst.
The capacity of the human body to adapt is nothing short of amazing. In a relatively short period of time the bruise juice feeling subsided, I scrapped the support items and I was jabbing away like an old pro. My daily grind, day in and day out. And then, about 3,500 shots into it, a new phenomenon set in. Scar tissue. I guess it’s inevitable that you just can’t keep stabbing ourself over and over and expect the tissue to remain soft and supple, but it got so hard the needle could no longer penetrate. And I got dents. Dents in my arms, thighs, hips and belly.
Since no piece of cake is complete without a cherry on top, I added menopause into this olio of battered flesh. This change in hormones almost always includes a healthy helping of unanticipated and rapid weight gain, particularly in the middle. I am no exception. So here I am: a pair of skinny legs with dented thighs; a set of skinny arms (I don’t even have flapping underarms) also deeply dented; some good cratered curves on top and a nice comfy and lumpy belly. Pretty.
Now that you have that fabulous imagine seared into your mind, let me explain the reason for the rant. I stopped injecting in the legs and arms as they don’t have the…let’s call it thetraction, that the hips and belly do. Now I’m down to 3 locations and they have taken the brunt of the over 4,000 shots I’ve given myself over the last 11 years. This hardly seems fair, so the other day I decided to give the leg a shot. It got all swollen and creepy and I had to run over to a friend who’s a doctor to look at it and then ice it for an hour. So, next up, I tried the arm. Son of a gun if that old Bruise Juice feeling didn’t come burning back through, AND I couldn’t lift my arm for 3 hours.
That is what pissed me off and prompted this rant. We all have to take our lumps in life and I know it as well as anyone, but sometimes it feels really good to just get mad and vent. I feel better now, so I’m going to go back to Googling the new oral meds that are coming out ~ I hope to heaven they are not Bruise Juice pills.