Noticed a feeling of healing in two people in two days
Posted Jul 10 2008 4:05pm
Yesterday and today two clients at two different times mentioned one word “narcissist” for two different people to me (one of them was talking about his relationship with a family member and the other one was talking about an ex. I saw the hurt and resentment on my clients’ faces and in their tone of voice.
I asked each one of them to think of “narcissist” as a label placed on the persons they were talking about just for a few moments. Then I asked them to remove that label and sit in silence for about ten seconds. I noticed a feeling of healing on their faces - both of them confirmed that feeling. Several people have shared with me about the effectiveness of this simple technique.
Just imagine how much we can heal simply by removing unnecessary labels of humans.