i am in between bulmia and anorexia, i am recently married and my husband keeps asking me to have a baby. its not that i don't want to, its just that i am finally happy with the body i have after 11 years had surgery boobs and tummy tuck and i already have an 11yr old from a previous relationship. i cannot see myself as being a mother a second time round as i kill myself everyday with diet pills, detoxing and exercise. i look at all my friends who have had kids and they have become so skinny after giving birth it took me 11yrs to get from a size 18-20 to a size 8 and i am proud of what i done. i also had a tummy tuckso my tummy is flat as a pancake and now he wants me to have a baby. i do not know if i can cope with being fat again or having a 'mummy tummy'. my husband says he will love me no matter how i look but isn't that what all men say? i've defo heard that before and when i put on weight i got cheated on! i can't get fat again, alarm bells go off in my head when i even just think of being pregnant but i do want it as well, maybe not now but in the future...the only thing is will my husband wait for me( he has threatened to leave me because of this situation before) and will i be too old to have children when ifinally get over this weight issue? i am already 29 wil be 30 in december.
Posted by charlene
i am in between bulmia and anorexia, i am recently married and my husband keeps asking me to have a baby. its not that i don't want to, its just that i am finally happy with the body i have after 11 years had surgery boobs and tummy tuck and i already have an 11yr old from a previous relationship. i cannot see myself as being a mother a second time round as i kill myself everyday with diet pills, detoxing and exercise. i look at all my friends who have had kids and they have become so skinny after giving birth it took me 11yrs to get from a size 18-20 to a size 8 and i am proud of what i done. i also had a tummy tuckso my tummy is flat as a pancake and now he wants me to have a baby. i do not know if i can cope with being fat again or having a 'mummy tummy'. my husband says he will love me no matter how i look but isn't that what all men say? i've defo heard that before and when i put on weight i got cheated on! i can't get fat again, alarm bells go off in my head when i even just think of being pregnant but i do want it as well, maybe not now but in the future...the only thing is will my husband wait for me( he has threatened to leave me because of this situation before) and will i be too old to have children when ifinally get over this weight issue? i am already 29 wil be 30 in december.