I have been dating a guy for the past 9yrs. (on and off) We broke up for 9 months and rekindled. He asked me if I was ready to marry him. (after saying how much he miss me and how I inspired him to do better for himself) Two weeks passed then he changed saying We just started back talking we should take things slow. enjoy each other's company.
Some guys just aren't ready to commit. That doesn't make them bad people, just that you two are in differrent places in life. In anwer to your question, you DON'T stop loving them (if you love him, you love him), but love is only one component of making a relationship work. Other components include commitment and compatibility. So, try to separate out your feelings of love from what would be best for you. Think of it as heroin so some other drug. Just because it feels good and gives you pleasure, doesn't mean you should keep on using it, and it certainly doesn't mean it is good for you!
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I have been dating a guy for the past 9yrs. (on and off) We broke up for 9 months and rekindled. He asked me if I was ready to marry him. (after saying how much he miss me and how I inspired him to do better for himself) Two weeks passed then he changed saying We just started back talking we should take things slow. enjoy each other's company.