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Ex dating someone else? Do not be depressed - it is a great news

Posted Jun 28 2009 7:36pm

Rejoice if your ex is dating someone else. More so, if you separated recently and want to get him/her back with you.

 

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Why is this music to your ears? Here is the key. Studies suggest that more than 90% rebound relationships do not work if they start not long after a separation. In other words, if you separated from your ex recently, and your ex is just recovering (just like you), then s/he is almost sure not to get this date working in a long term.

The reason is that, the recovery phase gets people trying to become emotionally more stable. In other words, they are still not in the right shape in terms of emotional balance. So, sit back and relax in spite of however you feel inside.

Don't contact your ex now. Don't be jealous. Simply mentally gear up for getting back with your ex, especially now that s/he is trying to start a relationship with someone else.

Remember that you have a history with your ex and the other person does not. remember that every moment that your ex does not enjoy with the new person (which is very likely since s/he is not yet emotionally stable), s/he is going to remember the good times with you. It is going to hide his/her bad times with you and bring the good and great memories forward. That surprisingly diminishes the good qualities of the other person and puts your qualities in the limelight in the mind of your ex.

And all the time, s/he will start longing for you more and more. Only, do not contact him/her now. Wait, watch, enjoy and prepare the home ground. S/he is almost sure to contact you shortly, within a few days.

Make sure you do not miss your bus once s/he calls.

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