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"I normally have more experience and it doesn't matter. As long as they are linked into what is going on and are open minded to be calm and please me.. I once had sex with a virgin who basically hyperventilated and went soft. Not a good time." "It wouldn't bother me if she was inexperienced or a virgin I'd be willing to show her the ropes. Though I've had sex plenty of times, its been quite some time since i last did so I would be a little nervous too the first time. Actually now that I think of it usually i am a bit nervous with a new woman anyway at least until we get some chemistry going." The less experience she has, the better. I'm a virgin too, and I don't consider sex to be a casual thing, and I'd want her to feel the same way. And I don't care if the sex is not as good with a virgin; it's not like I'm having so much sex that I would be impatient over a bad sexual experience. Anyway, we would gain experience by doing it with each other. "I would be unsure about a girl who's had a lot of experience, because it would give me the message that I'm just another in a long line of partners, so what is so special about our relationship? Yeah, this might get me labelled a prude or a misogynist or something, but I don't care. I'd feel the same if I were a girl." "I'd like someone with similar experience (I'm a virgin), but i wouldn't say no if she has some experience. Preferably not one that sleeps around a lot though" "I've sort of taken it for grant that if I ever dated anyone they would be more experienced than I am, given my current age and lack of experience. But barring cases where I feel I might be at risk of contracting an std, a partner's experience doesn't really matter to me. Losing my virginity to another virgin might even be pretty interesting, even if very clumsy at the same time." "As long as this person does not talk endlessly of their previous sexual exploits, I really don't care" "I have never heard of a guy complaining about a woman in the sack. Ever. All my friends are just happy to have a woman to have sex with.I'm not even sure why men are being questioned about being picky?? A man has two needs for a relationship, sex and companionship. Give him that, and he'll be more than happy." "Experience doesn't matter. Everyone's tastes and desires are different, so it's always about exploring and learning with your partner(s)." |
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I got a lot of really honest and insightful answers to my question of whether or not your partners sexual experience level is important to you. These are more of the answers I got from people who suffer from social anxiety.
"It's not something that I consider very important. The best part of relationships is getting to know each other (inside and outside of the bedroom!), I think, so someone having little experience is not something I care about in the slightest. I'd be a little put off, to be honest, though, if someone had had a lot of sexual partners before me. The less experience, the better, is my personal preference (but ultimately, of course, all that really matters is how much I like the person as an individual). It may sound a bit selfish, but I don't like the thought of someone having had a string of other lovers before me. Perhaps that's to do with my own insecurities and lack of experience, but I certainly don't consider someone having had a lot of sexual experience as a 'plus'. I'd actually be secretly relieved to find out that they had little/no experience. I've only ever been in one sexual relationship, to give my own situation. He was a virgin, as was I, when we met. I was glad about the fact that I was his first. Sex improves the more you get to know about what each of you likes, as it's naturally a very intimate and personal thing between two people, so why would I care if someone doesn't have much experience? It's fun to learn together! I imagine that you could be with a very sexually 'experienced' person and yet the sex could be rubbish, just because you aren't properly tuned into what each of you likes or doesn't like yet. So I don't think sexual experience in that respect is important at all."