Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers Suffer Maternal Deprivation
Posted Feb 04 2013 2:16am
deprivation is the absence of care, lack of affection, holding, looking
into your child's eyes giving the message: "I love you do much",
listening intently to your daughter's messages, verbal and nonverbal.
The narcissistic non mother removes all the joy from her daughter's
life. Narcissistic mothers live for themselves alone. Often they are
envious of their daughter's beauty, talents, intelligence, exuberant
personality. They hate their child's spontaneity and pick away with
their nasty criticisms. Some daughters learn to conceal their true
feelings. Others become emotionally numb. Some harbor a deep mother rage
inside that they turn on themselves and becomes self loathing.
of narcissistic mothers have difficult life struggles, learning to
fully love their unique selves and celebrating it.
To break the yoke attached to the narcissistic mothers they must recognize that they bear no fault
They are separate from the cold ungiving selfish self absorbed woman who didn't raise them. These
daughters do the hard work of healing themselves and emerging as
strong, loving, gifted women. Many benefit from psychotherapy, nurturing
relationships with friends who understand them, spiritual practices
that create calmness deep within them,creative pursuits that are healing
and transformative, giving their care and affection to others who feel
unloved and unwanted.
of narcissistic mothers can and do come fully into the own true
identities. They can prevail over the past and live fully in the
present, expanding and growing all of their potential. Visit my website:thenarcissistinyourlife.com
Linda Martinez-Lewi, Ph.D.
Telephone Consultation:United States and International
Book:Freeing Yourself from the Narcissist in Your Life