Is your narcissistic golden boy older brother (or younger brother)
still controlling your life, your feelings, your decisions? Is he
haunting your dreams and your thoughts? Does he hurt your feelings every
time you have contact with him? Is he continuing to demean and
humiliate you in front of the family? If the answer is Yes to these
questions it is time for a reckoning with this narcissist even though
he is your DNA brother.
You deserve to be treated with
respect and understanding despite what any other person thinks,
including narcissistic mothers, fathers, brothers, sisters and in-laws.
You have tried every avenue to make peace with this brother who has
taunted you all of your life. Mother and father picked him as the golden
children when he was very little. You were left out in the cold to fend
for yourself. In some cases you were protected by a grandparent or aunt
who loved you deeply. Some of these children go it alone, keep their
own counsel and learn to take care of themselves very early. They are
courageous human beings.
A time comes when you feel
compelled to make the decision to sever the non-relationship with your
narcissistic brother. This action frees you up to lead your own life,
unimpaired or burdened by the vicious attacks, niggling, picking, verbal
assaults of your narcissistic golden boy brother.
time to appreciate who you are and acknowledge your creative gifts,
your empathy and your unique capacities. Pool together friends that you
can trust and from whom you gather strength and full acceptance and
Now you are ready to say "Au Revoir" . You
experience an emotional and psychological freedom that is sweet and life
giving. Go off on your pathway, fly with the winds, feel the goodness
inside of you and know that you are loved. To learn about the
narcissistic personality in-depth, visit my website:thenarcissistinyourlife.com
Linda Martinez-Lewi, Ph.D. Telephone Consultation: United States and International Book: Freeing Yourself from the Narcissist in Your Life Email: firstname.lastname@example.org