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Menopause Stories

Posted Oct 01 2008 8:20pm
Menopause Stories

My own transition through perimenopause was dramatic enough for me to want to share my experiences, and those of numerous others, with women and men dealing with its physical, emotional and mental issues.

Menopause blindsides most of us. Typically no one really expects it, and sometimes it takes months before one realizes that the sypmtoms they are experiencing are, in fact, this change of life.

Personally, I began experiencing physical affects first. Somewhere around 46, my waist left. I gained weight in the middle and the total is around 20 lbs that I can't seem to get rid of. Put it this way - the things that normally made me lose those 20 lbs do NOT work any more.

Then I began waking up in the middle of the night. Every night. Around 3 am, and I couldn't go back to sleep, sometimes for hours. Next, came the hot flashes; which I noticed mostly when I was up at night.

When the emotions began to swing, I finally realized something was happening that I had never experienced before. I was standing in the line at the grocery store and saw a small child go by. Because I like children, typically that would cause just a warm spot in my heart. But now I was crying, tears pouring down my face to the point of being embarrassed enough to leave the store. I felt like I was going mad.

Because emotional instability runs in my family, I've always had a hidden fear that my hormones would take over one day, and I wouldn’t be able to recognize myself. It felt like my worst fears were coming true. Probably the worst thing was that my memory had become unreliable. It's one thing to walk into a room and not remember why you are there, but it's another to forget critical information that affects your job performance or the care of your house and child. I felt like I was in anger of losing everything. How could my life be over so soon?

One day during a conversation with my mother, and after I got angry over something trivial, she said out of the blue, "You know, Cathy, you aren't acting like your normal self. Do you think you might be going through menopause?"

Bang! She hit me right upside the head. It had never occurred to me before. But so many little things were beginning to ad up, and I couldn't deny them any longer. Yes, my body changed and I was pissed about it. Yes, my mind was fuzzy and I couldn’t complete as much work as I wanted to. Yes, my emotions would swing so wild, at times I thought my heart would leap from my chest.

I needed help ...

Come back and find out what I did to put quality back into my life during perimenopause.

In the meantime, visit my webiste to answer some of your most important menopause questions:

Menopause Home Page– The Menopause information home page

Menopause Symptoms - What are the symptoms of menopause?

Andropause Symptoms - What are the symptoms of male menopause, or
andropause, and what are my alternatives?

Menopause Treatment - What medical and alternative methods are available for women
in menopause today?

Male Menopause- Andropause is to men what menopause is to women. Find out
more about male menopause here.

Menopause Articles for Women – Everything you need to know about menopause
can be found in these articles.

Male Menopause Articles for Men – Most men aren’t aware of male menopause
and they most certainly don’t talk about it. Here you can find updated
information that could significantly improve the quality of your life.

Menopause and the Latest News – Here we’ll keep you updated on critical
and objective news regarding menopause and the secondary issues caused by this
transition.

Menopause Book List - This list comprises publications for both women and
men regarding menopause and the secondary issues caused by this transition.

Menopause Resources
– Here you’ll find numerous business, government
agencies and associations that can help you improve the quality of your health
and life.

Menopause Web Links- Everything you need to know to handle menopause
gracefully and where to find it.

Menopause Blog– If you want to read about other women and men’s menopause
experiences, just go here.

Menopause Contact Us– All the contact information you may need to call or
email us any time.

Menopause Site Index

Free Newsletter - Join our mailing list today and get once-a-month
stories from both women and men who are going through the same life transition
as you are.

Share Your Story - Do you have a personal story you want to share? People
tell me often that hearing other's stories is very helpful to them.

Menopause Find a Doctor– Discover what the symptoms of menopause are and
where you can find a doctor in your area for the United States and Canada.

Menopause and Weight Loss– Find out how menopause affects weight loss and
what you can do about it.

Menopause and Bio-identical Hormones- What are the alternatives to traditional Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT)? Select here to find out.

Menopause and Hormone Replacement Therapy – Keep updated on the most
recent news regarding HRT.

Menopause and Hair Loss– Is your hair loss related to mid-life? Go here
to find out what you can do about it.

Menopause and Depression- What does depression feel like? How do you know
if you should be concerned about what you are feeling or thinking? Read more
about how depression shows up in our lives during menopause .

Menopause and Progesterone – Find out how natural progesterone cream can
balance estrogens without side effects and help smooth your transition.

Male Menopause and Testosterone - Men tend to develop male menopause more
gradually than their female counterpart. Read how testosterone is affected
and what your alternatives are.

Male Menopause and Erectile Dysfunction – Read more about this common
concern for men particularly during mid-life.

Menopause Relief– Find out how to relieve the symptoms of menopause
through self care here.

Menopause Symptoms– Are you wondering what the symptoms of menopause
are? Select here to find out.

Menopause FSH Home Test– Take this home test to find out if you are in
menopause or not.

Store Offering Menopause Treatment - One-stop-shop to shop for menopause
treatments.

Seven Dwarf of Menopause - A funny graphic depicting the typical symptoms
of menopause.

Just for Laughs - Need a laugh? Who doesn't, and if you can't laugh every day what good
is it all?


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