My hubby & I take anniversary trips when we can. One year we went to Mendocino, one year Half Moon Bay. This is where my dream day would start - Big Sur maybe? Somewhere beautiful that we haven't been before. My dream day would start with no pain. I'd wake up able to walk & take on the world. My hubby & I would eat a leisurely breakfast without worrying about gluten ingredients or if something would make me sick. We go for a hike, maybe rent some bikes or go kayaking - something fun & exploratory of the area. We'd break for lunch - maybe a picnic or stumbling upon a cute little cafe. The whole time not once thinking about pacing or if I'm overdoing it in order to make our dinner reservation. In the afternoon we'd walk & explore the town -- window shop, maybe even buy a few things. Stop for a cocktail or two before heading back to the B&B to get ready for dinner. Maybe we'd take a nap, maybe we wouldn't but it won't be necessary, it will be out of our choosing. We'll have a late dinner reservation because the need to go to bed early doesn't exist. Dinner would be a fine dining experience - some of the best food we've ever had, complete with a complementary bottle of wine. Afterwards we'd leisurely walk back to our room, maybe stop for coffee or dessert - the extreme need to lie horizontal & rest from the day won't cross our minds, we'll just do whatever we want to do.