Mindful Makeover Kit Free Giveaway & The Buddha Chick’s words on Transparency: The Key to Spiritual Growth
Posted Jun 17 2011 12:00am
Special Note: As a Surprise Treat to all you beautiful readers, I have for you a Free Mindful Makeover Kit Giveaway which is an amazing spiritual growth course by Janice Lynn Lundy who is an educator, interfaith spiritual director, retreat leader and celebrated author. But first, just soak in her beautiful words on Transparency: The Key to Spiritual Growth. More details on the Free Mindful Makeover Kit Giveaway below this article. Enjoy! ~ Love, Zeenat~
By Janice Lynn Lundy
Like many others, my spiritual journey began when my life wasn’t going as planned. I was stressed and overwhelmed, trying to be the perfect wife, mother, friend, and co-worker. I was sick and tiredliterallyof working to make everyone around me happy, and I had the poor health to prove it.
In 1994, I dove headlong into a journey to reclaim my “Buddha Chick self,” as I have come to call her. A woman who is innately calm, clear, and wise; one with that peaceful Buddha-like smile on her face and one in her heart too! I was willing to do the inner work required to uncover her because I really wanted my life to change. I wanted to feel less strained and more Chickful of peace and joy.
The key to living as our Buddha Chick self, I discovered, lies in our ability to be “transparent.” This means we are passionate about our healing journey; willing to look at ourselves openly and honestly. We acknowledge our history and the stories we continue to tell about ourselves. Transparency also means, in each moment, we tell the truth about what we are thinking and feeling, especially if it is sourced in the ego, then vow to do what we can to disconnect from it. When we are transparent, there is no more hiding from our self.
But it’s tricky learning to be the observer of yourself. The ego is very wily. I often think of it as a chameleonone minute it’s green with envy, the next, it’s purple with a phony spiritual air about itso you’re never quite sure who you’re doing the tango with!
What works for me is to think of my observer as a Scientist Chick. You can become a scientist of yourself too. It’s not that difficult.
Imagine simply taking any emotion you’re noticing and placing it on a slide under the microscope. Look at it with curiosity, dispassionate awareness, and say:
“Isn’t this interesting? My, my, look what’s here?
Ah, jealousy. Mmmmm, interesting.
Ah, resentment, very interesting.”
And on we go. Naming what is there on the slide. Our first step in creating a new relationship with our thoughts and emotions is identification, pure and simple. Give them a name like any good scientist.
Just say what is without judgment: Fear is here. Envy is apparent. Dislike is rising.
By giving it a name, we begin to have a new relationship with this particular thought or emotion. It is no longer mysterious, dark, or scary. It just is.
Through being our own observer, we can take an honest look at the thoughts and feelings that continue to dominate us. These thoughts and feelings become our words, as well as our actions in the world.
Transparent observation ideally leads to self-reflection which leads to self-knowledge. Which according to the great yogic teacher, Paramahansa Yogananda, eventually leads to “God knowledge” or divine union.
We set the intention to do this process without self-criticism, judgment, or shame. We do so with love and compassion for ourselves, because we are making significant strides toward releasing old habits and hurts. We treat ourselves gently, kindly. We immerse ourselves in Metta (Loving-kindness) because we do want to live as our truest, most loving and peaceful self.
Without transparency, we will not move forward on our spiritual path. Without transparency, we will continue to delude ourselves, stay stuck, or wounded. We’ll continue to read self-help books for “head knowledge,” but postpone our heart’s growth. If we truly desire personal change, we must be willing to put the book down and start engaging with our innermost self.
Uncovering our Buddha Chick self is the journey of a lifetime, and one well worth taking. With faithful friends and mentors cheering us on, we can take the first steps toward living as the radiant women we are meant to be.
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With Immense Love & Gratitude, ~Zeenat~
Counseling Psychologist/Spiritual Counselor